why he say all those thing to me and once he meets my cusin it's like i dont exist any more and my cusin is telling me that she went out with him and that he kissed her but she did not like it what should i do belive her or no?
2007-09-02 09:54:34 · 14 answers · asked by tweetybird 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be done with the guy,he sounds like a looser! Your cousin should have not gone out with him,so it really doesn't matter if she liked him kissing her or not;the real issue is she went out with him.Go ahead and forgive her since she is your cousin...after all she is not getting a prize! Be glad you realized he is a player,learn from it and get on with your life!
2007-09-10 07:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by ana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are creeps! They run around acting as if we are not people and don't have feelings. Like we were put here just for their amusement and entertainment. Guys say things that they think a girl wants to hear just to get their way, which is probably what this creep did! Listen, try not to be too upset, easier said then done, right? As for your cousin, learn this lesson now, use it for future reference, so that when you meet a good guy you like, you know to keep her backstabbin a*# at a distance! If she did it once and you let her get away with it, she will do it again, believe that! That guy doesn't owe you anything, but your cousin was dead wrong for even going out with the guy, she is the one who owe you something, she's your family. What she should have done was let this guy know that he can't run through your family like that, but instead she thought only of herself and did what she felt like, not even considering how it would make you feel. Let me tell you how I have sisters who would date one of my friends or ex's in a heartbeat, so I can relate to how you feel. I went about changing the types of guys I was dating just to try and stop that madness! Thank god they are both married now and I don't have much to worry about, that is until someone gets divorced (LOL) Just be mindful, guys come a dime a dozen, and we really can't chose our family, so you deal with that one at a distance because if you let her think what she did was okay and that it didn't bother you, she will do it again, trust me. As far as that loser, forget about him, he couldn't have meant you any good in the first place, better you found out now about him being a dog rather than him pretending to care about you and making you really miserable, right?
2007-09-10 14:53:28 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it really matter WHY he did this stuff? Clearly he's a jerk and needs to be kicked off the planet. As for your cousin, you would know better than us if you can believe her or not. Does she have a track record of lying? If not, give her the benefit of the doubt. Don't worry, he'll most likely play her too.
2007-09-02 17:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by god_chic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that guy is a jerk a wannabe player and don’t waste your time breath or thoughts on him trust me those are the guys who go around romancing girls and making them feel special and as soon as another girl walks by you mean nothing to them they're immature and they are going to be lonely for the rest of their lives unless they find someone dumb enough to put up with them. Either that or he already liked your cousin and used you to get to her. sorry sugar I know it hurts but he's not worth it. as far as your cousin there's really not much you can do if she's his next victim then it's up to her and if he really likes her only he knows and if she likes him back only she knows.
2007-09-10 16:27:16 · answer #4 · answered by r0cker1ta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe your cousin if she is trust worthy and don't stress too much about it.
You will find a way better guy and he will be upset he lost YOU.
Goodluck!!
2007-09-10 16:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by Oops, did I say that? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a playa. if ur cousin goes out with him well then thats her problem, but u shouldnt ruin ur friendship with her bc of some stupid guy. just forget him, ur better than him and deserve more.
2007-09-10 13:44:12 · answer #6 · answered by ..::..Lovin him..::.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the difference weather he kissed her or not? He obviously is still shopping around so you should too.
2007-09-10 16:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by Grampa B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because all the things he was saying to you was just to see if your panties came down. I'd warn your cousin if I were you. If she doesn't listen, all you can do is be the one to say, "I told you so."
2007-09-10 16:05:08 · answer #8 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That just means he's a LOSER thats playing with your head.
2007-09-10 14:18:43 · answer #9 · answered by Unbreakable Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them be together which I doubt would be long anyway, and get with a guy who respects you.
2007-09-02 17:05:27 · answer #10 · answered by Survivor 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋