In today's society why is it so hard for people to stay faithful to their better halfs?
2007-09-02 09:51:19 · 10 answers · asked by Lightbright 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because most people have no real relationship with Jesus Christ first. They're walking in the woods blind!
2007-09-02 09:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if they are aware of each other, then no its not cheating, its not exactly lady like, lol, but not cheating now if u some how got them thinkin they r ur only one, then yes for sure its cheating, they dont have to kno of each other, jus kno that u personaly r still seeing other people, an of course they shud kno u r sleepin w/othr guys, condoms dont protect u against evrythng babe, warts and herpies can be on the scrotum sac too, and crabs jus walk on frm thm to u an vice versa, so u stil aint completely safe. and ur morals an self respect might be affected n the long run, u dont have to sleep w/every one u date. there is no law against making the guy wait til u can tel if a future is there, an if u kno already that these guys will never be ur future, then why giv ur self away lil by lil everytime u date? slow down girl, life is fun when u make them wait an want u soooo bad they cant take it no more, an u cant take it no more,waitin jus a bit, has its perks too. careful.
2016-05-19 21:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Today's society there are more temptations than in the past. Here in America men and women have total freedom to express themselves in the way they dress, act and so forth. If a couple is married or not there is always going to be another person who catches their eye. The problem starts when they want to act on it, and the hormones kick in and for most men its a conquest for their ego, for alot of women, especially married ones who are older, its boredom from routine and they want excitement back in their lives.
2007-09-03 05:40:21 · answer #3 · answered by Steven H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's 'today's society'... unfaithfulness has been going on since the dawn of time... it's nothing new. I guess we're all just human, we make mistakes, hopefully we learn from our mistakes and move forward (some of us don't). I think people get blinded sometimes, we forget about everyone else and get lost. I don't think people intentionally want to hurt their better half's but they become selfcentered and lost... I think there are ways of protecting yourself (your marriage) from this. You need to keep your bond strong. You need to stay 'in love' (love changes but it's always there), you need to grow together instead of apart. Yes, religion/faith helps... but I don't think it's mandatory.
2007-09-02 10:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by spiffy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not hard for everyone i was faithful for 23 years he cheated and it has nothing to do with how much you do for them if there going to cheat they will. there are always others out there just playing games to see if they can get the married man or women they dont really want them just a sick thrill that might get caught. but there are alot that do stay faithful. you both have to be willing to talk and work on keeping it alive.
2007-09-02 09:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by tweettreat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Faithfulness is a trait learned by human, there is no such thing as faithfulness in the animal kingdom. Since our ancestor have ape like features, our natural instinct for survival is to mate with as many females as we can...
2007-09-02 11:42:01 · answer #6 · answered by gannoway 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because today's society doesn't understand the words, honor, integrity, faithfullness. Todays TV, radio, newspapers are full of people justifying their unfaithfulness to everything from their wives to their presidency.
2007-09-02 09:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by Wolfsheart 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth I haven't found it hard at all. I love my girlfriend, and even though people ask me out and things or flirt with me, she means so much to me and is my everything. I don't want to cheat, she is the breath in me, makes my soul complete. I don't want anyone else.
2007-09-02 09:55:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hugh Hefner tells our men that "what they want, what they really, really want", are porn stars, cut from a cookie-cutter. Women are chasing those men whom they think will treat them as the $ex-objects, that our decadent society idolizes and promotes as the ideal female!
2007-09-02 10:23:24 · answer #9 · answered by Pinyon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont find it hard to saty faithful but i think what tempts people is that the fact your not suposed to be doing something your not meant to.
2007-09-02 10:41:03 · answer #10 · answered by .... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋