once, after a quarrel with him, i smsed him, saying do you love me? and he did not reply. i was dsapponited but i did not blame him.
a few days later, i smsed him again, are you happy being with me? he did not reply too. i was very disappointed and i went to ask him face to face whether he was happy with me. his answer was maybe. i told him that is he could not even answer such a question, we should break up. we had a good talk together and cried. he then told me he loved me a lot and was happy to be with me.
even after our break up, we continued chatting on the phone and even meeting up. he even kissed me twice on the lips but have apologized for doing so.
i asked him if there was a chance for us being together again, he said, not for now. was i wrong to jump to a conclusion that he didnt love me anymore just because he didnt reply my sms? i still love him a lot.what should i do now?
thanks for reading my question. i love you all.
2007-09-02 03:15:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is obviously something left there! But if he said not now, then give him time. We often tend to fly off the handle at our guys but really they are trying to find the best answer and we don't realize that time flies when we are waiting. You were wrong, but it's not something that time won't heal (granted he just wants time and not time to move on). One of the hardest things that couples have time grasping is communication! If you aren't constantly talking and understanding one another then you do get trapped and say the wrong things. We also tend to ask intimate questions which guys never think about, ex: Do you love me? A lot of guys aren't really thinking does she love me, he loves you, you love him, you say it to each other and they don't question it so when you ask him, he starts questioning everything. Are you happy being with me? There again unless you are having serious problems, most guys tend to think, she's not happy or she wouldn't be asking so then they get defensive, "well it's not my fault." We women, well we worry to much about oh this and oh that and guys don't worry much at all. Truly, he probably does need time because he's probably wondering, am i happy and do i love her!? Guys are great but very intimidated by love! We all are. If you FEEL loved, and you enjoy your relationship, then why ask if he loves you? If you have doubts, ask yourself first? If you answer i'm not sure or i don't know!? Then sit down with him face to face and see what's going on. But not so out there, just in a round about way!
2007-09-02 16:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by nix_tinkerbell 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand that he told u he is not in love with u at this point of time, then y u gave him a chance of kissing u?I think he is just making time pass.I think u should give him space for some period of time.And another thing is if possible try to spy him, weather he is engage with another girl or not.If nothing is there like this then i am sure he is honest and still have some soft corner in his heart for u.so best of luck
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2007-09-02 03:54:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should speak to him instead of using sms to speak to him, and a responsible couple should never break up because of some misunderstanding, they should solve it together so speak to him and see if there is a solution you could both use
2007-09-02 03:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by Ben's Snake Pit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were wrong to jump to conclusions, he doesn't want you right now, probably never again. Get over it, move on.
2007-09-02 03:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys talked about it and he agreed then maybe it's not all misunderstanding. I guess he need some time off to think about things. just give him some time to chill.
2007-09-02 03:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET BACK with him! he's just shy and he's afraid of using the wrong words! he loves u and u love him back ( i've solved 3 relationships and dating questions!) and dunno how the hell do u get back with him? ok! then just go to him and say "i.." then suddenly kiss him in the LIPS! .................... then marriage and happy ending
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2007-09-02 03:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by TRUE-NERDY-BOY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him how you feel and don't break up with him and Thanks for answer my question! I get back to you if you are my best answer. See ya!
2007-09-02 03:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋