please girls only?

Question

i work in a bar, well the other night it was really quiet and there was these two hot girls on the dance floor (there was only two others in the bar drinking), well i couldnt keep my eyes of one of them, well when i was getting the ice i missed the door and walked into the wall watching her. hahaha, we both laughed and used it to break the ice, well every time i passed her i would dance with heer i could tell she liked me too she would allways be looking at me, and grab my hands and put them on her hot butt, well we eventually started kissing ( i waited till she was ready) well i took more breaks that night than in all the time i worked there, so the next day i rang (she asked me to , the message was on her answer ph was a guy by the name of steve ( could be her brother dad or really what ever) no reply... but why do you girls do this and lie about feelings or give wrong numbers...she said she liked me and asked if i was keen to see her again, im slowly being turned of relationships,

she claimed not to do this she even noticed i was a nice guy i told her that me doing this was breaking the rules. it took ages for us to kiss. it seemed really kool like ive seen enough munter chicks i thought i could tell. i just seem to allways be let down no matter where or how i find a girl no ,matter how i act or treat them i always end up hurt lied or run around the mulberry bush...

yeah well it dont matter where i find them or how slow i go. most of them all say they want my kids or how cute i am or they want to marry me im so hot handsome or beautiful and then just up and leave, or they just stop calling or ignore me, even had two of them try to knock me out...it just seems no matter what or where or how im screwed, karma from a past life
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im not saying this was a relationship just feeling down cause you have to meet them to have one and im sick of the lies

ive only worked here like 4 days now...im talking girls anywhere on the train, at tec, climaction, yachting, soccer, my street stall, through friends etc bla bla ....how lame do you think i am

i just wanted to know why girls ladies females ask for honesty when they cant them selves, but felt i should explain why, i find talking about my **** helps, and well there are some half decent answerers

if she only wanted fun i said to her that would be kool but she asked if i wanted more she waited for me to finish she left, i ran after her said i wouldnt be long she got tired said i could come round text her later she was asleep ph off, but she also said iof she was call her the next day, her phs on just no reply or answer

cheers to a lot of u who are actually given some really good feed back

thanx kush i know in some cicles id be a hero cause i know i can get it every night, but im 33 dude want kids and dont want to be like 60 when their 20 ya know, and i want only one women, i have never really been a player could have and from the amount of girls ive been with you may think so but ive always had the same intentions and there honorable, just getting tired

Answer 1

I'm sorry this happened to you, but girls can get really b**** sometimes! But fortunately for you guys, we're not all the same.
Let me tell you, just the fact that these girls were dancing alone in the bar should ring in a bell they were not up to anything good. If I were a guy and wanted a serious relationship with a girl I certainly would not choose this one, not even if she looked as hot as she did. She was clearly fooling around with you looking to satisfy her sexual appetite. A decent girl would not put a strange guy's hands on her butt and start kissing him so fast. If she were looking for something serious she would have gone slow. Girls can take advantage of guys too. I'm afraid that's what happended to you. But again, not all girls are the same. I certainly would not behave like that. Just be careful next time, and go slow, even if she's coming on fast.

Answer 2

I'll tell you the same thing I told a friend of mine that worked in a strip club.... don't take your work home with you. Women flirt with guys in bars for any number of reasons, and we don't necessarily want anything to go beyond having fun that night. I would suggest trying new places to meet girls, just not where you work.

And I wouldn't say it's Karma from a past life, just being at the wrong place at the right time.

Answer 3

Some girls just want to have fun. That doesn't mean that they owe a follow up. If you asked for her number she probably didn't want to appear rude. It may be the correct number, give it another try. Not too much or she may think you're a stalker. It could be that she was out having a good time with her friend with no intention of pursuing a relationship. Usually we don't lie about feelings, we just have a hard time expressing them.

Answer 4

Maybe you are jumping to the wrong conclusion here, give her another ring and leave her a message, the guy could be anyone of the people you suggested or just a flat/housemate. Don't give up and don't judge everyone by a few bad experiences, mind you a girl dancing in a bar who puts your hands on her backside within minutes of meeting you is not going to turn out to be Mother Teresa is she?........get real.

Answer 5

I do not think a bar or night club is the place to meet girls for lasting relationships. Try taking up a new hobby or join a sports club. May be you are trying to hard or come over as desperate. Try to get involved in some thing else and the women will come running.

Answer 6

Maybe she was drunk at the time or she liked you at first then decided she didn't but instead of coming out and being straight with you about it, she felt bad so gave her so called number out anyway....If you want to meet a decent girl, don't find one in a bar.

Answer 7

looks like you was played by a player well a slapper to tell you the truth hunnie,its not always like that but its a bad idea to try nd meet and try and see woman who come to your bar because most of them are probably totaly drunk and its usless you will get no where in the bar,all us woman are totaly not the same hunnie so dont let a slpper like that put you off relationships hunnie,get to a cafe or some where where the womn are not drunk becasue they will fill your head full of rubbish,good luck hunniexxx

Answer 8

well u met her in the bar what u expect she only wanted a fling maybe and wanted a bit somthing else so dont pick up people from the bars and get to know her first plus she was a hooker den case no one kissies on the first date or night in ur case and aloso wat u expect wow u kissed u think she would be looking for a relashoinship plese u were the only guy there anyway u dont meet someone on the first night and think there is a relationship because u danced and kissed watever

Answer 9

not all girls do that i promise. but i think u just have to keep trying, or take a break from relationships. don't go with the easy girls it's the ones who play hard to get that really like you. or the ones that don't let on immediately that they like you. this girl sounds like she does that kind of thing every night anyway.

Answer 10

well... basically ask for there mobile numbers cause if they realy like you they will give you the right one and ring it see if she answers before she leaves. But some girls give mixed signals if they are just out for a laugh youve just gotta be careful dont make someone your everyhting cause when they go youve got nothing hope dis helps