and im told often enough plus im friendly etc. (i dont wanna talk myself up tooo much!) but basically ive been told that im a catch and my married guy friends have made it pretty clear they would date me in a sec if they were single..SO why the massive dry spell, are other girls having same prob? what can i do to make myself more available???
2007-09-02 02:55:04 · 6 answers · asked by sparkle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you need to think about what you do to good and meet potential boyfriends. Do you go to bars/clubs? Do you look for dates when out running errands during the day? Do you have hobbies or other activities you do where there are other guys?
Whatever you are doing now, it's not working like you want to, so try something different.
Also, why haven't any of your married guy friends introduced you to some of their single guy friends? That seems like a great resource for dates.
Other than that, the only advice I can give is to drop me a line. I'm single and looking.
2007-09-02 03:03:36 · answer #1 · answered by STPabroad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well perhaps your too intimidating? Guy's can become easily intimidated by pretty looking girls.
Have you tried flirting a little more with people you find yourself attracted too, that might also do it. My guess is, if you go after someone and they are single then you probably wont have much problem getting them if you let them know you are interested.
Have you asked any of your guy friends to set you up with some people? that is also a decent way to get some dates moving.
well good luck!
2007-09-02 03:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by crysent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello
I have been having a similar problem and I am a guy who has alot to offer. I decided not to let it get to me about not having a girl because as long as you are ok with you that is all that really matters. Have you ever heard the statement-Timing is everything? When the time is right you will be approached by plenty of men. Hope this helps you.
2007-09-02 03:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by Hello 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, get over yourself. Whether or not you're pretty or good looking, your first goal should not be "who will I date next". Your question makes you sound like a streetwalker.
Be yourself and stop trying so hard. If there is someone coming up in your life, he will find you soon enough. In the meantime, focus on your school, or activities, or friends & family.
Good luck.
2007-09-02 03:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by Paul L 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem is it's not about looks. Your appearance may get you dates (or maybe not) but if you aren't approachable, aren't looking in the right places or you don't make a man feel like a man. then you will still sit home alone.
Don't depend on the wrapper to sell the candy.
2007-09-02 03:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ive been single all my life hahaim 13 lol
hmm .. look better?
2007-09-02 03:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋