im studin in high school and there are quite good lookin' kind and cool boys. im kinda quiet. and dont talk much with boys but i want boys to notice me how can i do it?help me
2007-09-02 02:17:45 · 17 answers · asked by pooh 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
Hey, I've just finished high school, and in my experience the cool guys often want a break from the really loud flirty jumping-all-over-you type girls! I was quiet like you and I still got noticed! As said above, just try and get eye contact and
smile! Don't let them think you just dont want to talk to them. If you sit next to a nice guy make a bit of contact, brush his arm or his leg, drop a pen and bend down to get it so he gets to look at you... lol. Seem friendly, ask for a pen etc. Believe me, you'll find the "good-lookin' kind and cool" boys have probably already noticed you, just give them the message that youve noticed them too :) I once overheard boys argueing over who could "bring me out of my shell first" lol XD
Anyway, hope this was a bit of help, good luck! x
2007-09-02 07:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by pogzemily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice boys will notice you. Carry on as you are doing. If you see a nice looking lad talk to him anyway you can. Don't worry about being embarresed you could start off light by asking him something simple like can he remember what the homework was for a certain class then maybe next time your in ask how he got on with it or something. Build from there. Good luck you seem like a nice lass and i hope everything works out for you:)
2007-09-02 09:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that them noticing you doesn't have to do with being quiet. In fact, if you try to purposely become loud and more obnoxious, they might not appreciate it and be turned off. So I think you should be yourself and just mentally and physically prepare yourself for the right guy, and when you see him, make the first move and snatch him up :)
Work out a little, grow confident with yourself, and that little extra oomph when you walk tall and smile will have them buzzing around you like bees to honey
2007-09-02 02:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by Sambal Oelek 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sort of a shy person and i get noticed a lot. Generally guys tend to speak to me a lot just because they notice that I am shy. U could also try talkin to making small conversations with one who you may not be as nervous around as the others
2007-09-02 06:03:59 · answer #4 · answered by shawgurl_852002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself...the smiling part the other person gave as advise is a good one...maybe becoming friends with a girl that talks more would be a good idea....study up on sports so you can get into a conversation about at least one of them...try football...guys appreciate girls that have some knowledge into sports.
2007-09-02 02:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by trivia buff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offence but kinda quiet isn't enough. Boys like confidence. Unless you are butt ugly then soon if you let your personality shine out boys will notice you.
2007-09-02 02:32:30 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Killing Loneliness♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to put yourself 'OUT THERE' for a guy, let him come to you if your quiet naturally then stay that way!
you'll find him, dont try and be like some girls that have bad reps!. then you get respect, just keep smiling =]
x
2007-09-02 06:18:44 · answer #7 · answered by Parrtty =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give them a nice friendly smile and be aproachable. guys wont come and speak to a girl if theyre miserable or moody, and the hard to get routein nearly always backfires as they loose interest. good luck ! xxx
2007-09-02 10:33:04 · answer #8 · answered by nicola. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was last year. summers over and is back to school so now you have changed over summer, people will think. just get more involved in it, smile, say something funny, and laugh at all their jokes, and just be yourself but not shy! just get into it. once you do, everyone will notice you.
good luck!
2007-09-02 02:49:59 · answer #9 · answered by Jamie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look good like do yur hair nicely or whatever & they will notice yu more.
flirt with them
or when they look at yu flash them a smile or even ask them for help in a question that yu have or something.
2007-09-02 02:41:59 · answer #10 · answered by MyChemicalRomance 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋