2007-09-02 02:16:30 · 23 answers · asked by Wishing Star 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's not worth it if all he wants from you is sex...
2007-09-02 02:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by Vee 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You sound like you really like this guy that you can afford to lose your self respect. How do you expect others to respect you then? Respect and love always go together. If your boyfriend wants to brake up with you because you are bad in bed then what he felt for you is not love but lust….. but well if its just all about sex then you need not worry cause I’m sure a lot of guys out there are better than he is …and a good teacher too….
But I think you should reconsider the importance of yourself…give yourself the love and respect that she deserves … don’t let anyone treat you like a garbage or a sex toy that will just be throne away anytime by somebody if they don't like it anymore.
Life is short so stop wasting your time with the wrong person especially just because of lust… for it will never last. Find somebody that would respect you ….would love you for what you are and not for what they want you to be. You don’t deserve a looser, you deserve a true lover.
Just a personal opinion , hope this helps =)
2007-09-02 15:25:48 · answer #2 · answered by LOI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to hear that your b/f seams to have the understanding that if your bad in bed then you get dumped. Now seriously... do you really think that low of yourself to let a boy manipulate you in this way.. because your relationship should not be all about sex hun. On the other hand if you do want to please him more.. sit and have a chat about what you and he likes.. and maybe show each other. This may open your sexual relationship up a little and also bring you closer. But, make sure you feel you are respected for doing so ok. Be loved for being you are not a sex object, you deserve better if this is the case. best of luck hun..
2007-09-02 09:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by Twinkle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How come women can come on here and complain about men being bad in bed, but when the shoe is on the other foot, women complain as they are on this thread?
Get real. Women can be bad in bed. And if you are, then you need to read up and learn better techniques.
Also, sex is a major part of a relationship. If a guy didn't want sex from you, all you women would be on these boards talking about how he doesn't want you.
Freaking hypocrites.
2007-09-02 09:25:31 · answer #4 · answered by flipperwipper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and enjoy it! Either there is chemistry or there is just not! It's not always SKILZZZ!!!!!!!! Maybe he doesn't make you feel like he should, he might be the problem. Probably very conceded and more experienced. If the relationship is totally right, you will be a STAR!!!!!!!!! If you want to get tips rent yourself a good XXX movie and watch it by yourself. You can learn alot from watching. But don't waste your new found talent on someone who is a not worthy! Or you could just use him for practice. HaHa!
2007-09-02 09:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad in bed??Says who?It takes two to tango and if he is relying on you to 'perform' then what does that say about him??Sex is meant to be more than just an athletic competiton surely?And who does he have to compare you to?How many other people has he slept with and could you be risking your health by being with this shallow,hurtful person??Is he worth it?Seems to me you need to value yourself a whole lot more before you let someone else judge you so superficially.If all he wants is sex-let him get it from someone else...is he really a keeper???Higher your standards and wait for someone who is really worthy of you-the sex will be better too,believe me.
2007-09-02 09:23:48 · answer #6 · answered by Rosie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you? How long have yall been together? Why do you say you are bad in bed? If you are at least in your 20's and yall have been together for at least a year, then I guess you need to figure out why yall are on different levels in the bedroom. Find out what he likes and just do it!
2007-09-02 09:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by agathamontreal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY are you bad in bed? this is very sad and he obviously doesn't think alot of you to give you this impression. talk things through and ask him what he does want in bed. if you like him that much you will try to work things through if not bin him off.
2007-09-02 09:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk! If he thinks you're bad in bed, let him find somebody else, but you don't be there to let him back with you! Maybe it's not YOU that's bad in bed, maybe it's WHO you're with that makes you not into it!??! Ever thought of that!? Maybe he don't know what pleases you and you're bored? But if he's the one doing all of the pleasing you really should try to step it up!
2007-09-02 09:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you need a better lover . He sounds like a 30 second wonder to me . Remember sex is only as good as both of you make it . If he not doing it right not your fault . Why dont you try another lover and see . Remember use CONDOMS .
2007-09-02 09:31:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is more to life than just mechanical sex. Get a boyfriend with brains its more important. Sex will get stale, but brains will last forever. If he wants ony sex, get rid of him.He is not a friend he dosent respect you or care for you. Just using you. Dump him and get on with your life.
2007-09-02 09:20:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋