So, as some of you might know, my boyfriend has been flirting with otehr girls. and i dont wana get all paranoied about where he goes, who he sees, and stuff like that (my friend was paranoied once with her bf, ugh got really annoying) so, is a taste of his own medicen okay?
His locker is right across from science, and my lab parter is willing to do it...
come out of science flirting nd laughing with my lab partner. totally ignoring my bf. i mean, thats what he does. would it be okay?
hey, i dont get down nd broken, i get up and back. im not gana break up with him....just show him what it feels like. if thats okay, any way i can make it BETTER?
2007-09-02 02:01:55 · 12 answers · asked by ♥ LOVES TO DANCE ♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Might backfire. My advice -- be upfront. Tell him that when he flirts with other girls it makes you upset. If he continues, then it means he doesn't care about your feelings and you should find someone else that is worthy of you.
2007-09-02 02:07:35 · answer #1 · answered by Cinthia Round house kicking VT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can do that little demonstration, or you can tell him that you don't like him neglecting you like that. If he says that it means nothing and you shouldn't be so paranoid, or whatever, and makes it seem like it's your fault for even mentioning what he's doing, then dump his a**. You deserve a man that gives most of his attention to you. Flirting is okay when it's innocent and when it doesn't disrupt his relationship with you. If he can't change his ways, then he doesn't deserve you. It wouldn't cause any harm to do some innocent flirting in front of him, but there's no way to know whether it will work or not. It could just get him angry and do something stupid. Tell me how it all works out, though. Good luck!
2007-09-02 09:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by Dana Mulder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, revenge really isn't the answer. For one, he'll likely not see it as fair. Also it can lead to escalation, next thing you know he'll be kissing someone, then you'll have to go to second base etc.
Really though you need to deal with the real issue. Talk to him and find out why he's flirting around. And you need to acknowledge the possibility that he's starting to drift away from you. If your relationship is on the down slide it's important not to act out of anger or revenge. That just leads to bitterness and regrets.
2007-09-02 09:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not a good reason if he is not cheating don't do it. You will only make the situation worse than what it is. Have you ever heard the saying to wrongs don't make a right.? Now if he does this in your face you might want to re evaluate your relationship with him...
2007-09-02 09:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by cubby12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why? so he can dump you because you flirt with other boys?
solve your problems with him, don't involve other ppl in it.
tell him that what bothers you, he may even not know, that (to you it seem as) he is flirting..he might think he is just being kind (and he really is and you are a bit ..um..selfconcoious)
2007-09-02 09:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by catherinaxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your both immatured little high school kids to me , neither of you know what love means .
2007-09-02 10:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi frnd
ur idea sounds really great .... i didnt know tat u wil bite the dog back if it bite u its sounds soto me......... thinks can be changed in love talk to ur bf find out if he is really interested in u or its simply useless .... u love him so much tat u don wan to break up if he loves u so much why should he go to other girl..... think wat those girl give which u don normally boys go behind thing which are said no .... havur f in ur hand ... enjoy ur life with him
2007-09-02 09:15:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds very childish. Just break up with him and stop playing games.
2007-09-02 09:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by justme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds good. It worked for me.
2007-09-02 09:07:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try it and if he mentions it then it worked eh?
but if he doesnt then he couldnt careless....
2007-09-02 09:06:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋