I understand the whole, "opposites attract" phenomenon, but we're completely different. I'm a drama queen and he avoids drama at all costs. I'm anti-religion while he's as religious as can be. I have tons of friends while he's content with one or two. The list goes on and on, but we're always talking to each other and although it sometimes ends in a disagreement, I still feel an attraction to him. So why is he everything I want, when he's nothing that I am? I'm so confused.
2007-09-02 00:42:58 · 7 answers · asked by labordazedandconfused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats because you are IN LOVE! and when you are in love, you overlook his flaws and the disagreement that both of you have.
and yes, it is true. love indeed repels the "repulsive forces". however, both of you must have something in common. otherwise you wont be talking to each other right?
2007-09-02 01:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by destiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sound like me. He balance u were needed. And sometime we need that. I relationship with no disagreement would not be real . Learn not to sweat the Small stuff he can teach u all lot and u will do the same.
2007-09-02 00:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by KORIN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many factors that govern attraction.
Someone else with the exact same qualities may not attract you.
Just be happy that you two have connected and stop looking a gift horse in the mouth.
2007-09-02 01:03:46 · answer #3 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who does he remind you of? If you look at your parents and ask, which one did I have that hardest relationship with..does he remind you of THAT parent?
Usually, we're attracted to people who are like the parent we had the roughest time with.
2007-09-02 00:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's the other side of the coin that something inside you wants to see, and you think he is the only way you will see it.
The Rat
2007-09-02 00:50:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You balence each other out.
The question you should be asking is do the two halves fit well together?
newspiritmusic.com
2007-09-02 01:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be he´s your balance of life!!
2007-09-02 01:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by 121aloraphotos 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋