If he leaves you for another woman .,then decides he wants to come back ....how do you do it? What would make a man do this?
2007-09-02 00:33:41 · 11 answers · asked by lilly l 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he broke up with me BEFORE he took up with the other woman, and was decent about the way he broke it off, I'd probably consider allowing him to try to win me back. However, the relationship wouldn't be the same. He'd have to start at ground zero and work his way back to being a "relationship". You don't get "do overs".
If he was seeing her while pledging his undying love to me, or we were in an exclusive relationship, then he's out of luck. He's not trustworthy and I don't need people like that in my life.
Some men always want what they don't have, and then realize what they lost.
2007-09-02 00:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thought that the grass would be greener on the other side.
So he dumped you and tried to "upgrade".
Now that he's back, either things didn't go as well as planned with the other girl; or, he realized that you were the better choice.
In either case, you got played out; and if you accept him back, don't complain when it happens again.
Because he'll just use you until the next best thing comes along.
Love yourself.
2007-09-02 07:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a woman and not a replaceable object. He had his chance and he chosen another woman, so why should you take him back now? Respect yourself. And dont forget, as soon he will find another one he would go again.
2007-09-02 07:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by Rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinion on this is rather severe, okay? I'm just giving you a warning.
I would tell the louse to get lost, and never, ever come near me again. otherwise you will become the traditional doormat, and he'll constantly be leaving you to check and see if the grass is greener somewhere else.
2007-09-02 07:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by freespirit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not taking him back anymore.
what would make a man do what?
...leave someone for another then tries to come back?
well...first of all this man has no respect for you whatsoever...and then second of all...he's a total loser.
2007-09-02 07:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Slide♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he surely know that u love him so much that u will forgive him.and what u should do is dumping him.so he will respect u and realize that it's up to u to decide not he's decision to leave u than go back to u.and after being surprised maybe he will value u more.
2007-09-02 07:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nature of the beast.
Ever watch a nature show where they are in the wild and are observing mating rituals?
Same stuff goes on there.
Its built in.
The Rat
2007-09-02 07:43:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They fear of rejection. U don't want him but you dont want that ***** to have him either. Maybe to much time and things invested. Many different reason. Allot has to do with insecurities.
2007-09-02 07:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by KORIN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dead friend was the ball for my friend and I but after he died I told her was not gonna play ball with no others, so as of now she took her hubby in thats been gone fer 38 yrs. she trying to get me to play ball again, told her I don't even wanna meet him. and etc. this is only the short end of me and her and whoever;.''
2007-09-02 13:56:44 · answer #9 · answered by bigturkeyme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with beth. If he left you for another woman, then leave him and make it final.
2007-09-02 07:43:15 · answer #10 · answered by Sun And Sky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋