When ever she comes into my dreams i almost cry n next day i feel emtionally attached to her.
2007-09-01 23:51:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
She has married another guy n now its more than 1 year.
2007-09-02 00:00:03 · update #1
I request members all the members plz dont give silly answers.
2007-09-04 05:11:24 · update #2
Deep Down you miss the bond you had with her and now you dream about her,it is your subconsciousness keeping her attached to you! If you haven't started dating yet I suggest you do .look deep inside and with honesty to yourself make sure you really wanted the relationship to end ! Either way once you address your unresolved issue then you shouldn't dream about her anymore~
2007-09-02 00:15:34 · answer #1 · answered by John C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to convince your mind that it is only a dream. It is not the reality. This is also a case of auto suggestion. You keep believing that you can forget it. You keep believing the world is full of joy and pleasure awaiting your acceptance than this untrue dream. There are other sorts of duties and pleasures more enjoyable than crying for a property or belonging which is not yours. Don't jump to any ill conceived ideas. Leave it to time and concentrate on further personal development. After all life is a sojourn where everybody can not have everybody by their side all the time. Cheer up and take up the journey with renewed vigour and will. Best wishes.
2007-09-02 16:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by Dhendan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tht happens,friend ! Break-up doesn't enable one to wipe off the ex entirely from memory.(How happy we all wud hav been,had we been blessed with such a power !) We find ourselves dreaming and thinking abt our ex every once in a while (unless it was just a casual flirting).
If your love was true,you may never be able to get rid of this prblm,but over the years,the pain will gradually diminish and she'll settle as a fond memory in one of the corners of your heart.
Just keep re-inforcing into your mind again and again tht she's gone forever and past is past.Whenever you dream abt her,keep yourself so busy for the next few days so tht you don't get time to even think abt yourself,forget abt her.Slowly,you will come out of this,am sure! Also a new partner will help you in detaching yourself from her memories to a great extent.Good Luck !
2007-09-02 04:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by Sunflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to Dreamcrowd:
It is very common for people to dream about ex-partners. Individuals that have been an important part of our lives continue to take up a part of our mind and heart. It is impossible to very dramatically shut the person out of thoughts and feelings. Just because the relationship ends does not mean that all is finished. As we go through relationships we learn and at times pick up "battle wounds." You will continue to dream about your ex-girlfriend or boyfriend until you "let go" of them on a very important level, or until you learned your lessons from that relationship. Either way, dreaming about your ex-romance does not predict future involvement. It may be wish-fulfillment, reliving memories, or working out old issues. Dreams are very rarely prophetic.
Try posting your dream on Dreamcrowd for a free interpretation.
2007-09-08 14:53:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To dream about your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend or ex-husband/wife or that you and your ex got back together again, suggests that something or someone in your current life that is bringing out similar feelings you felt during the relationship with your ex. The dream may be a way of alerting you to the same or similar behavior in a current relationship. What you learn from that previous relationship may need to be applied to the present one so that you do no repeat the same mistake. Alternatively, past lovers often highlight the positive experiences you had with that person.
In particular, to see your ex-husband/wife in your dream, indicates that you are finding yourself in a situation that you do not want to be in. It suggests that you are experiencing a similar relationship or situation which makes you feel unhappy and uncomfortable.
To see your mate's ex in your dream, suggests that you may be comparing yourself to the ex. The dream is trying to tell you not to make the same relationship mistakes that ended that relationship.
Alternatively, seeing your ex in your dream also signifies aspects of yourself that you have x'd out or neglected.
2007-09-09 18:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ex
To dream about your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend or ex-husband/wife or that you and your ex got back together again, suggests that something or someone in your current life that is bringing out similar feelings you felt during the relationship with your ex. The dream may be a way of alerting you to the same or similar behavior in a current relationship. What you learn from that previous relationship may need to be applied to the present one so that you do no repeat the same mistake. Alternatively, past lovers often highlight the positive experiences you had with that person.
In particular, to see your ex-husband/wife in your dream, indicates that you are finding yourself in a situation that you do not want to be in. It suggests that you are experiencing a similar relationship or situation which makes you feel unhappy and uncomfortable.
To see your mate's ex in your dream, suggests that you may be comparing yourself to the ex. The dream is trying to tell you not to make the same relationship mistakes that ended that relationship.
Alternatively, seeing your ex in your dream also signifies aspects of yourself that you have x'd out or neglected.
Ex-Boyfriend
To see an old ex-boyfriend from childhood in your dream, refers to a freer, less encumbered relationship. The dream servers to bring you back to a time where the responsibilities of adulthood (or marriage) didn't interfere with the spontaneity of romance. You need to recapture the excitement, freedom, and vitality of youth that is lacking in your present relationship.
To dream that your ex-boyfriend is giving you advice about your current relationship, suggests that you unconscious is telling you not to repeat the same mistakes that you had made with this ex-boyfriend.
To dream that you are being massaged by your ex-boyfriend, suggests that you need to let go of some of that defensiveness that you have been putting forth. You may have been putting up a wall or armor around you. You need to learn to trust people again.
To dream that you ex-boyfriend gives you a stuffed animal, suggests that you are seeking for reassuring and nurturing aspects of a relationship. This is not to imply that you want you ex-boyfriend back. Alternatively, the dream could represent some immature relationship which may (or may not) describe the relationship you had with your ex.
To dream that you see your ex-boyfriend dressed in a suit at a hospital, suggests that you have come to terms with that relationship and have completed the healing process.
http://www.dreammoods.com/dreamdictionary/e2.htm
hope that helps
2007-09-09 17:45:21 · answer #6 · answered by Ddvanyway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just had the exact same dream. me and my ex-boyfriend were so close before we went out. and now, i just had the sweetest dream with us.
you may still love her. talk to her about it. getting it off your chest will probably fix everything. but only time can take its toll.
me on the other hand, i dont have that luxcury, because the guy i was telling you about, is currently going out with someone...
2007-09-02 03:46:51 · answer #7 · answered by asdfghjkl; 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here buddy.
this shows how difficult it was for you to break up with her, you still cannot forget her.
unless you dont get her out of your system completely, her dreams and memories will haunt you. (it will take some time )
i couldnt get over this guy for 3 whole years!.. i completely isolated myself for 3 years and today thank God i am Normal.
times is the greatest healer.
2007-09-01 23:57:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch!, it happens regulary in some people.
But if this dream is making you insane, the best way
is get a therapy.
oshhhhh I'd tell you, you don´t need someone to have a big smile upon your face.
well, whatever, i don´t know whay i´m telling you this if my life still being wrong, but I think is part of my therapy
2007-09-02 11:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by n_n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur still in love with her
try to find somebody else, make new friends and dont compare any of them to her, u'll only end up disapponted.
everything happens for a reason, and maybe it was meant to be.
break out of the shell that ur in, u cud be the somebody that someone is waiting for.
2007-09-02 00:34:17 · answer #10 · answered by Mandy J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋