Just wondering but when i, or anyone else for that matter, post something about themselves doing some sort of self harm, and you say
"get help, please dont do it again"
really care, i mean do you really care if we get help or not?
2007-09-01 23:44:57 · 9 answers · asked by Deleted 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
No,they just want the 10
2007-09-02 00:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I really do care. I have been in the same predicament you are in. Most of those whom tell you to stop, don't know how much cutting does for a person; in both good and bad aspects. My goal in life is to affect as many people I can, and helping seems to be the only good way to do it. You can't just depend on the care and empathy other people have for you, you also need to have the same empathy for yourself. That is the only way to get out of the cycle of self harm. I really do care, and I would love to help you. Please consider joining this site. I am a moderator there, and all I get to do is help others, I love it! You can PM me where we can talk if you want to. Take Care and STAY SAFE!!!!!!
http://www.soberteensonline.com/forums
referrer: annihilate_me
2007-09-02 10:40:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The internet is by nature not intimate. Would you walk up to an absolute stranger on the street and say "I hurt myself - help me and care about me". No, they'd probably freak out and tell you to get away from them. Sounds to me like "Teh Intrenets" people are nicer than those would be in real life.
Don't troll for attention. If you really do hurt yourself, seek professional help, a counselor, a church, something!
2007-09-02 06:57:16 · answer #3 · answered by cazgotsaved 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I care, and so do many others on here. I care when I see someone going through something that I have gone through before, and who are obviously hurting. A kind word costs nothing and takes a few seconds!
2007-09-02 18:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by robin_peel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I do, but I can't fix it. I do think someone needs help and I think they should get it fast. I also think that when someone brings this issue up that they want help. If the person was here and I was with them, I would be taking them to a therapist or mental health center. I wouldn't want anything bad to happen to them. I believe they need professional help.
2007-09-02 09:46:27 · answer #5 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually to tell you the truth, it depends what mood im in or how bad i need the points to ask a questions. but most times i actually really do.. even tho i never kno if its true or fake i give the best advice i can, cuz i also have depression and i feel extreamly bad for those too.Besides it doesnt hurt to help out others.
do you care?
2007-09-02 07:33:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know about everyone else.... but even though i dont know you... or anyone else on here.... i do care. I believe God put me on this earth... through all the crap that i have been through.. for the very reason of caring... and supporting other people.
yeah... i go out and answer peoples questions like yer own... with ... " get some help... stop doing it".... and i know... yeah its easy to say that..... but its the truth. people that self harm... people that want to die... they do need help. and they need help NOW... before it gets totally out of hand and gets really bad. i suffered for years on my own... i didnt tell people. yahoo answers wasnt around to ask questions and get answers from other people.
Im totally excited that this now exists.... while i still struggle with some things... i know its my place at the moment to spend some of my time on here... supporting... encouraging and guiding people such as yerself into the help that you need... and deserve.
yeah i am a christian... and yeah... some people will hold that against me.... thats their problem. i wont preach at people here... but i will use my christian values to support and help people.
its not my place to demand that you go right this very moment and get help.... in the end... it totally up to you... and no one can make such decisions for you.... in the beginning... it was my choice too. and eventually i choose to get help...and i am glad that i did... cause now i am on the road to recovery.
i would encourage you to keep asking questions here... get support and ideas on how to get help... on what to do... ideas of what worked for other people.
but in the end... it is up to you...and as much as i would like to make that decision for you... i cant. but i will encourage you to get help.... and will always be here to talk to... so yell if ya want an ear to listen :)
2007-09-02 07:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by missy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honey, you have to care for yourself is the point. Dont get your panties in a bunch because a bunch of absolute strangers arent caring enough about you. I hope you have friends & family for that & if not...care for yourself
2007-09-02 06:52:11 · answer #8 · answered by birdie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, yes, but in a really distant and futile way, most people have very real and relevant crap going on in their own lives and that will take presidence, i mean, you have to care about yourself if you want your life to change!!!! good luck x
2007-09-02 06:57:34 · answer #9 · answered by Jamni@ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋