take for a person to know if "it's" ther? I started dating a guy acouple weeks ago and we do nice things together, and even share with expenses sometimes, but there aren't any sparks. How long should I give it before I move on?? We are platonic friends this far.
2007-09-01 18:09:25 · 5 answers · asked by sorri 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Dating" is thrown around so much these days. Why are you dating someone you don't have feelings for? That is a good question. Its ok for girls to be friends with boys...as long as its understood that its only friends. The first step in creating a spark is to be intimate. I'm not talking make out sessions, I'm talking about sharing feelings. Ask the guy if he has feelings for you. Maybe he does, maybe he doesn't. Sometimes simply talking about it will spark some emotions. Good luck!
2007-09-01 18:15:47 · answer #1 · answered by nemorino147 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him right away. Since it seems like you guys hit it off as friends, maybe thats all it should be.
Whether your friends or dating, you'll be able to tell with time.
Don't get his hopes up just to bring them down.
Maybe you'll start feeling something for him just being friends, and itll turn into something special in time.
But if your not sure yourself about "sparks" being there, i wouldn't keep dating.
Not too much help i know, but i hope it helped at least alittle
2007-09-02 01:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doing something exciting or active that will get your hormones going... Such as hiking or water sports, thrill rides etc. If nothing happens then, just say, "You know, I really don't see us working out. Maybe we should just be friends for now."
Why tie yourself down to someone you aren't that attracted to when there are so many other people out there?
2007-09-02 01:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by Ophelia S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my lady knew from hello --- i was hooked at the same time -- i just did not realise it ---- if there are sparks you know from when you meet im sorry to say --- best wishes
2007-09-02 01:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sparks. No fire. Start walking.
2007-09-02 01:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by nhuvi j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋