my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost two years now. he's been faithful and sweet, but now that we've both moved away from home and each other, we're leading separate lives. hes been partying and drinking every night a state away and i've been hanging out with more guys. i've actually met one that is funny, sweet and a gentleman. my boyfriend hasnt called in a few days. what should i do? do i pursue this guy i've been hanging out with? should i wait for my boyfriend to call?
2007-09-01 17:42:30 · 3 answers · asked by your_eyesx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you do want to pursue a short distance relationship then break it off with your current boyfriend first ---- also think about what is it you want from your relationship --- something long term or just a fling --- you also need to find out what your current boyfriend is thinking ---- it sounds like neither of you is really committed to the other ---- best wishes
2007-09-01 17:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what you decide- do not do anything that you will regret. Before doing anything that might be considered pursuing this new guy- talk to your boyfriend first.
You may find out that he is feeling the same way and that it would be good to take a break from a committed relationship with each other for awhile.
Either way, talking to him and being honest now will help if you ever get back together in the future. This way way you can start with a clean slate, whether it's romantically or just a friendship.
Cheating always burns bridges. Don't do it.
2007-09-02 06:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,you shouldn't cause you really dont no what he is doing.see me and my boyfriend been together for five years,and i move to another state last month.so i no that he is seeing someone else
2007-09-01 17:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by ms.a.g. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋