Because she's not a virgin and she's only 15.
And we're dating. and I'm still a virgin obviously
We both have very different lives, she drinks, she smokes
I don't do any of that. but Yet we're dating.
But i just couldn't believe she's not a virgin when she's only 15.
I feel weird being with her now :l What should I do? Am i doing the right thing? and What should I say when she asks why Im breaking things off with her?
2007-09-01 17:38:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If her virginity is all that matters to you, you obviously don't love her.
Spare her further hurt by breaking up with her now.
2007-09-01 17:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by 123mantobeat456 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank you for the clarification....
OK-How did you end up "dating" in the first place if you don't seem to have anything in common?
You're coming off over this virginity issues a little harsh. Unfortunately, most girls on average lose their virginity at a young age. It's called the a**hole kind of guys, low self esteem, & the pressure society puts us through (I'm 29 by the way & I lost mine at 15 to a 19 year old).
Yes, break up with her because I think A-you are having your own personal anxiety about the fact that she has experience & you don't. B-That you two don't appear to have anything in common. C-When she asks why? Well tell her about your insecurities & conflicts.
I'll tell you now though, there are going to be other girls in your life in the future that may have more sexual experience than you & you need to NOT make that the issue. You'll end up making a problem out of nothing, over a perfectly lovely girl who may have just made a few mistakes along life's way. Guess what, we all don't have a map guiding us from point A to point B & some of us are going to get lost along the way.
2007-09-02 00:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by Smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm more worried about the smoking and drinking. Sounds like she doesn't have enough discipline at home. She might be a bad influence on you. Unless you are trying to lose your virginity too, maybe you should find a good girl.
2007-09-02 00:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by Uhuru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears that you are breaking up because of her drinking and smoking as much as her not being a virgin so tell her you feel uncomfortable being around her. Tell her you don't have enough in common.
2007-09-02 00:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW do you know she is not a virgin? did she tell you, or did you find out for yourself when the two of you were "hot and heavy"? You say you are a virgin, so I am assuming you and she never "did it". She may have just told you that for "shock value", or to try to seduce you, but since you seem to object to both her drinking and smoking, just ditch this loser and find someone more worthy of you and your excellent values.
2007-09-02 00:45:08 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you feel uncomfortable with her doing all of this then sure, but if you dont care then its whatever. Youre only 15 years old so you dont really need to be so serious about a girlfriend anyway, just chill out and take your time. I think this obviously bothers you, so its going to block your relationship from progressing.
2007-09-02 00:44:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋