Details: I've been really good friends w/ this girl for 2 yrs. 3 weeks ago, we finally started demonstrating a lot more than just being friends, more love towards each other= I would call her every morning and a lot during the day, go to the movies, mall, shopping, and just chatting at nice places...she would look into my eyes every time I spoke, smiled a lot, laughed a lot, flirted a lot...and wanted to be around me a lot.
NOW....1.5 weeks ago (and continuing)....she has not smiled back at me (very very little),....she doesn't look into my eyes anymore, every time I call her she tends to rush the conversation, ...and she laughs about 5% of what she used to.
What is going on? ???
I am pretty sure I haven't changed anything about myself...I am still the same person, act the same way, and love her to death.
I need some help.....what should I do to get that "spark" and get things back to where they were?
Girls!! You know everything bout' relationships plz help!
I'm 19, she's 18
2007-09-01 17:33:44 · 6 answers · asked by richneedhelp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
very odd, ususally it is the guy who puts the girl in this very situation., it could be that maybe she feels suffocated by u and needs a break, or maybe she just feels becoming a couple runined your initials realionship and she wants to try to rekindle that bestie relationship again.
2007-09-01 17:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...maybe you should ask her if anything is wrong. Maybe something happened in her family that she doesn't want to talk about. Or it could be that she found out something bad that you have done (If you have) like flirting with other girls..etc. or sadly it could be that she is giving you the IOD (indication of disinterest) I would talk to her and tell her what you just typed in your question and see whats up. If she is still acting strange tell her if she ever needs you call you and move on to someone else.
2007-09-02 00:42:56 · answer #2 · answered by pinkpearl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time you are with her, look her in the eye and ask her directly: IS THERE SOMEONE ELSE ? gauge her answer, and see if she looks you in the eye while telling you. Then you will know what to do.
2007-09-02 00:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dint read ur details....... but frm the question only, i think she found someone better than u.... so she isnt interested iin u..... so MOVE ON......
2007-09-02 00:40:53 · answer #4 · answered by GalNextDoor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oops ur not talkin bout me, good! well, y dont u ask her wats up!
2007-09-02 01:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by prettyinpink i 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i read is the question. move on.
2007-09-02 00:38:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋