im 15 & my grandma has been a real jerk. she never calls me. i always have to call her. she is always busy & hanging out with friends. i feel like she hates me. today she was going to pick me up & then she didnt. she told me to call her that day & then she didnt answer her phone. i had my hopes up & then she goes and ditches me. she lies to me all the time. every night, i cry for her cuz i miss her. it doesnt seem like she wants to spend time with me. she is always hurting me in some way. what should i do? i want to see her tomorrow but she wont call.
2007-09-01 17:30:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i can really relate to your problem. Because when I was that age my granny use to treat me the same way.
I feel like this of you call your granny and she dosen't answer leave her a voice mail telling her how you feel.If that dosen't work write a letter and mail it or just slip in her purse if she stops by. If all fells hit me back up to let me know whats going on with you.
2007-09-01 17:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that your Grandma is like this. I really don't have any answers as to why she is this way. I know that I couldn't ever be that way with my grandchildren. Mine are my whole world and spending time with them not only benefits them, it benefits me! My grandchildren come first in my life. I wish the same for you. Maybe you could sit down and talk to her and explain that you are hurt. And ask her if she couldn't take just one day a week to spend some time with you. Even it it is just to talk on the phone for a little while. Good luck and I hope you get some good answers to help solve your problem.
2007-09-01 17:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by grandmaL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your grandmother is doing is unkind...however, you seem to have some kind of separation anxiety regarding her. She goes out with her friends...you should go out with your friends. Do things that 15 year olds do, and try to get past this obsession with your grandmother. Maybe she just feels you're too attached since you seem to want her involved in your life daily. Try to focus on other things in your life and in time she will call you
2007-09-01 17:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cut grandma some slack.
She's old and her friends are old, and dying off on her.
Send her a greeting card every so often.
Go find yourself some friends your own age.
2007-09-01 17:42:10 · answer #4 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see your grandma is old & she must be having her own problems which she can discuss with her friends . Why dont you understand her problems rather than being self centered . Have a long chat with her & discuss her problems & i guess she will be happy
2007-09-01 18:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by ronny shetty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋