My boyfriend n i have been together a long time.... He wants to take our relationship 2 the next level but thats sumthing i cant do.I have fat legs n extremely bad skin on my legs n can never show them 2 ny1! I cant keep asking him 2 hold on because its not fair to him. I cant tell him about my problem because i know hel say its ok and he dosnt mind.... but i do! I dont want to loose him but at the same time i cant give him false hopes that this relationship can go any further. Should i just break up with him?
2007-09-01 17:30:45 · 8 answers · asked by Tanya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't, then break up. Just tell him. Besides, you won't be sure if he'll say it's okay.
2007-09-01 17:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the moment:
You have to come to a point where you are comfortable. Don't break up, just tell him the problem and tell him that you need more time to deal with this, and he does sound like an excellent dude, and he will wait. Then you have to seek help about this, because this could hold you back from a world of love... not because other people care, but because you care....
Good Luck.
2007-09-01 17:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by Disney Love 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If sex is all he is after, he will probably move on anyway.
You do not have sex just because he asks for it.
The girls who put-out generally feel "had" and are abandoned by their boyfriends easy enough. It really pays to keep your self-respect.
Sex is strictly for people who really have a real, committed relationship... and you don't do sex unless you are ready for the consequences such as pregnancy.
No, this view is not old-fashioned. It is more true every day.
2007-09-01 17:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you then he wont care what size your legs are or how bad your skin looks. He should like/love you the way you are. If your not ready then let him know. if he doesnt like it then find someone who is willing to wait. you arent going to loose him if he loves you he will wait
Before breaking up with him talk it out first. but dont break up for something you dont know yet
G.L
2007-09-01 17:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by valleygirl_1986 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're not sure, then absolutely don't. If you feel you have to sleep with someone just to keep them then they're not the right one for you. If you truly love this man and he honestly loves you and you know for a fact you want to spend the rest of your life with each other, then get married first and he should love you no matter what. You have to love yourself first though.
2007-09-01 18:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up girl... ! this is isn any reason for askin a break up..learn to liveeee !! nothin in this world can b left unchangd n no problm is der widout solutionsss !
2007-09-01 17:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by hari 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try and see you never know,if u guys have a strong bond that wont be a problem
2007-09-01 17:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by combs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cant make you do what you don't wanna, but i have to say i have the same insecurities, and maybe make a deal and say only in the dark ? =]
2007-09-01 17:36:55 · answer #8 · answered by Char 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋