I'm 20 now. I'm not sure whats wrong with me. I dont really fit in anywhere. I do well in school, but I have no social life at all. I have no idea how to start dating or even make friends.
2007-09-01 17:27:29 · 12 answers · asked by jblack988 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait 4 years
2007-09-01 17:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by nobudE 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U sound like me except im 17. If u dont look for a gf then u will find one. I never had a gf and i suck at talking to girls cause i dont have anything to talk about. I sit home most of the time and on weekends i go skimboarding at the beach. Find something fun to do I mean try to spend less time at home. Go drive around town go to the mall. Get a job in some girls store then u will find a perfect girl. Sometimes life sucks for some ppl but then again try to get a good paying job. Girls like guys with money but make sure to find a nice girl not a party girl. U sound like a good person. Im not gay or anything but i like helping ppl with relationships. Her something cool to know. In this world there is more girls then guys that means u have a better chance of finding someone u love.
Good Lucky dude!
2007-09-02 00:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get involved in some school activities that interest you; the people in these activities will already share one of your interest. Find the hot spots that people your age hang out. Spark up conversions. To start dating you need to put yourself out there. try to find a lady you like that is single she might be in one of your classes than ask her out on a date. f you are to shy for that send flowers to her with a note that says i'm interestedin you describe who you are and add a phone # she can call you at. also you can have a study group for those that are in your claases hold it at your place. you are sure to meet new people. just think outside the box and you'll be fine.
2007-09-02 00:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to start with friendship and save dating for later. To have friends, you first have to be a friend. This is not easy if you are shy. If you walk around looking like you have the weight of the world on your shoulders, people will tend to avoid you. If you wear a smile, folks will notice you. If you smile when you are talking to people on the phone, they will react in a positive way. Look for ways to help others, even if you need to start by practicing in nursing homes. Walk in and smile and say, "Hi!" Let others basically do the talking and when you have something to say, let it be positive. You will make plenty of friends.
2007-09-02 00:37:41 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give yourself a little bit more credit for start. there's nothing wrong with you. for start, try to be a little bit more active; free up your schedule, there's always time for socializing. i go to school full time an work full time. the only way to better your socializing skills is to lay it on the line and try talking to people. try and conversate with girls, you seem intelligent you'll know what to say. if not, just go up to her and say "hey how are you?" she say "fine." ask another question or you can flatter her by complimenting her, then go from there. just have to keep trying and try different approach. once you do that, you'll find what works for you and what don't. life is about trial and error. don't worry about feeling stupid or what other people might say or their response to ya. just make an effort. girls are not as ditsy as they might appear to be.
2007-09-02 01:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by skeezbucket 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 20 like you and just recently started dating...are you shy, that could be it? Go places to meet new people
2007-09-02 00:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by johm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way exept for the freinds part.maybe I can help.describe yourself to me.Interests(music movies and such) and what you find atractive in a person.
2007-09-02 00:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by evil mushroom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out there. if you are shy, you'll have to try to open up past your comfort level. learn to be a flirt. invite people to have lunch with you. share your interests. most people have friends because it's really not that difficult. think about it .
xoxo
2007-09-02 00:34:14 · answer #8 · answered by Temporary Sadness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if thats the case well this is your project (including mine right now) and this is what i have been doing lately and that is using your humor to break the ice. that is something you can start with.
and just be yourself and....................know what you want in your date if that person doesnt have it, then you can chose to back out of it.
2007-09-02 00:40:26 · answer #9 · answered by ethnhunt2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get drunk and have fun
and the next day when you wake up
check your pockets is where the girls
but piece of paper with some crap message for you
including their telephone number
2007-09-02 00:35:18 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋