You'll forgive the Queen reference - let it not detract from the utmost seriousness of this question.
I can't sleep. Know why? Because the only thing that I want in life is an amazing, beautiful, intelligent, charming, funny woman to love and to cherish. I am sixteen, and have not had a proper relationship. Yet there is nothing it this world I want more than to find a wonderful girl who will love me for who I am - in spite of my many peculiarities. And there are many. For example, most of my wardrobe was tailored before 1985. I am easily recognisable walking down the street - stopping occasionally to make witty remarks about those who have just hurled abuse at me. But I am unforfilled in my life. I want a woman who is very, very special. She'd have to be to love me. I'm just getting so bored with my miserable existance - I really need someone to brighten it up. I would not be able to go out with someone who I couldn't imagine spending the rest of my life with. But maybe I'm weird.
2007-09-01 17:19:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And yes, I probably could find someone if I tried - I am an exceptionally handsome, passionate young man from a nice suburb of North-West London - but what would be the point? Few girls my age - at least the ones I meet - are after more than a bit of harmless fun. I don't condemn that - it simply isn't something I'm up for. I want something deeper. Someone who can love me for all my many flaws - such as paranoia, facectiousness and bigotry - but also love me for the qualities that I do possess - passion, modesty (mostly due to my paranioa and generally low self esteem) and my sense of humour - which I try to apply to all aspects of life. Someone very special - probably someone who has been unlucky in love herself. I am being driven mad by this. Still, some might say that I am already mad, pooring my heart out like this on Yahoo answers. I'd be inclined to agree. Still, I'd appreciate any answers, and please feel free to email me, or even to speak with me on MSN. liam_oliver@hotmail.com
2007-09-01 17:20:09 · update #1
Thank you very much for all of you who take the time to read this.
2007-09-01 17:20:58 · update #2
I don't want to get married yet! I'm just saying - the person would have to be someone that I could see a future with. Maybe I made it a little unclear. Sorry.
2007-09-01 17:54:31 · update #3
Wow. Seriously, wow. You sound just like me.
I would be interested in getting to know you, except I'm 20 years old. That's such a shame - you sound like my perfect man! May I add your email address though? I want to speak with you... I'm weird too and I think we could have interesting discussions.
=)
2007-09-01 17:55:04 · answer #1 · answered by cosmicmoon 5 · 12⤊ 2⤋
Friend, in Indian culture, it is the parents responsibility to find their child a suitable spouse. Once married, a relationship forms and love is deemed to grow from there.
Western culture puts the onus of finding a partner squarely on the individual. You are still young, and have plenty of time to find a soul mate. You want to make sure you have at least left school and left home and are either working or at college before entering a serious relationship, since you yourself are evolving as a fully formed individual until this point (and even beyond it). If you truly want somebody to love, let time take its course and be patient enough to hold out for the soul mate you yearn for.
If its just sex you need, go get a hooker.
2007-09-01 17:30:02 · answer #2 · answered by Rabbers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Laim, I have just the person for you!!!! Okay, you want someone who loves you for all your so called quirks and your uniqueness. Since you stand out from the rest so shouldn't the one that loves you be just as unique? Someone who would even die for you or who would take such time and love out to count the very numbers of the hair on your head right?! Am I right!? :-) You will find someone no doubt but at one time or another everyone will let you down. You are looking for that "perfect person"...my friend, you just described Jesus Christ! He wants to have a personal relationship with you. Jesus is the only one that will satisfy your longing. You will search and find things that at first seem to fulfill that longing in your heart but that will fade. It is only when you come to know and have Jesus in your heart, only then will you find true happiness that never fades or spoils. "You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart." Jeremiah 29:13
Your friend, puka
2007-09-01 18:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone in this world wanted to be loved by somebody. Still you dont find some one. Amazing. The problem is with you. May be you want to show your love in a particular way. That could be ur problem. Loving is not a work. It is natural character of human beings. When love blossoms in u every one will come to you. Better u start with some one u respect or near u. Just think everyone is child of god, love will blossom in u. Before that u start love yourself. The one who cannot love self, cannot love others also.
2016-04-02 23:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, you sound so cute! you're only 16 concntrate on school and getting a good job, I think also if you're trying to score with a girls don't tell her on your first date you want to spend the rst of your lives togther bcause believe me she will run a mile! get to know each other first, then you'll know if she's the one, good luck xxx
2007-09-02 00:40:29 · answer #5 · answered by ωєℓѕн 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hey Poindexter, um try this put down your books and close your laptop. Then go to the library. scout the whole place out for a fine specimen of a young lady and talk to her! You two then can experience a wide variety of elaborate and fulfilling stimulus. Oh and get hip dude wear some cool clothes and be more obtainable... trust me your at that age I was when I let myself find the opposite sex and pulled my nose out of the books...Helpful hint ...Be confident!
2007-09-01 17:40:39 · answer #6 · answered by ben d 3 · 3⤊ 4⤋
You want affection. You are just 16 and this is not the age when one should marry. For girls,you have sex attraction only. You cannot tackle the marriage responsibilities and you have also not completed education. This is the age of adolescence and your parents should guide you in right perspective.
2007-09-01 17:50:30 · answer #7 · answered by baboo 4 · 1⤊ 4⤋
oops sorry u too young for me..16 and so passionate..
ooh well..what can i say, good luck!
2007-09-01 18:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by prettyinpink i 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i don't mean to be nasty, but how about you brighten up your wardrobe a bit, stop talking as much, you remind me of that Chas n Dave song, rabbit rabbit rabbit! gosh how old are you, 16? have fun, you don't need commitment yet, i mean play the field a bit enjoy being a 16 year old
2007-09-02 08:52:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 6⤋