my sister & me get into a lot of fights
she thinks i try 2 make everything a comittion
& always try 2 win
like if she asks help from on her homework & im explining
she cuts though my sentance
& says go away i dont need ur help u always do it wrong
& then i leave
later i would just aks if shes done
then she says when do you care u never wanna help
& im standing there all confused
OR
sometimes at little things she says
im not her sister i dont act like one
i want everyone hate her
but i dont
so i always feel like i do something wrong
i think it mite be cuz im a little bossy
or try to make what i do perfect
if you tunk so plz tell me
i wanna stop these fites
cuz im tired on crying
plz tell me if you think im wrong
2007-09-01 17:15:44 · 11 answers · asked by Jasmine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sibling rivalry at its finest.
Often sisters fight for years over the sillest of issues. I know my mother and her sister have fought over things which happened in their childhood their entire lives. They are now in their 90's.
Best of luck.
2007-09-01 17:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by khrome_wind 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart, you haven't done anything wrong, it's called sibling rivalry....she desperately wants your help, but she may be too proud to accept it, there's nothing you can do, but sit back and wait, next time you see her struggling, as her if you can help first, if she says no, let her know you're there to help her if she needs it, it gets hard, and you're going to fight, but you're sisters, you'll come out strong in the end, she'll realize you're not doing it to hurt her, or seem bossy, but rather so she can succeed....as for her saying you're not her sister....you know it's not true, she does too, although it hurts, you have to remember she's just flexing her muscles so to speak, she is trying to push you, to find out how much you love her.....if she interrupts you, let her speak, don't cut her off, I know it's hard not to show the bossy bone, but you have to get used to it, although it's there, you don't' always have to use it! As many times as I've wanted to, I've learned not to, it gets you no where but fighting....I have a brother that is 7 years younger than me, and for the longest time, I thought because I was older, I knew more, and didn't listen to him.....until I realized I was hurting our relationship more than I was helping it.....always remember, patience is a virtue!
2007-09-02 00:26:14 · answer #2 · answered by Heavenly Bunny (VT) 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
She is a drama-queen that is pulling your strings.
It could also be the hormones kicking in... there are a few stages of that.
When she pulls this psycho junk, tell her, "Well just be that way! If you don't want my help, then fine I won't give you any! You can talk to me when you are willing to be nice." Then you leave... go to your room, go to your friend's house, go for a walk around the block to clear your head.
Don't buy into any of her junk... when she cops the attitude, just leave. You need to install the concept that you are not user friendly and will not tolerate abuse.
If you don't feed her the attention she wants, she will eventually quit this junk.
2007-09-02 00:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i don't think Ur wrong for the simple fact is sister fight alot u Probually always will fight.. i used 2 fight with my sisters allot cuz let me tell u something they are mouthy.. just let her know u don't mean to be bossy towards her all the time that u love her and would like it if she would stop acting like that
2007-09-02 00:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by Drippn 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i understand i have two sisters and we fight like a lot especially my two sisters they fight like everyday... but dont you think that she perhaps may be a little jealous of you and just loosen up on the bossy/perfect thing cause my sister is like that and she gets me so mad i tell her i hate her and stuff so just loosen up or talk to her cause like i said she might be jealous
2007-09-02 02:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by Simple_Moon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
siblings are just like that with each other when you're young - trust me as you get older you will become friends - family is the strongest of bonds she doesn't hate you - just ride out the fights - and don't hold a grudge
2007-09-02 00:24:35 · answer #6 · answered by melis_md_03 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are tired of fighting your sister, simply tell her so. Tell her that you love her, and you just dont want to fight anymore.
2007-09-02 00:22:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i think id actaully have to see it all for myself... but are you alot prettier than your sister? do you get more attention or anything like that?do you give her any attention. it sounds like she is jealous of you... or she wants to be better friends with you but you dont act like a friend to her.. only like an older sister?maybe one of those things? either that or shes just a bi***
2007-09-02 00:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying. If your sister can't appreciate that you try to help her, then don't help her anymore. I know it hurts and you want to be close to her, but you can't change her.
2007-09-02 00:56:37 · answer #9 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is all part of growing up, I have 3 sisters and we would fight all the time, but now that we are grown, we are best of friends.
2007-09-02 00:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by Dee M 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋