I was really exhausted today. I worked from 7AM until 9PM yesterday. I was about ready to fall down. I got up this morning at 7AM and had lunch with my boyfriend and his mother and she left. I told him I needed to lay down for a couple hours because I was taking my son and his girlfriend out for dinner this evening and I did not want to be dragging.
He told me we had enough time to lay down before he left for work and asked me to lay down at 5:15 PM. He had to leave for work at 5:35 PM in order to get there on time. He was trying to get me to provide sex. He told me 30 minutes would be long enough for us to "nap". What was he thinking? Where does he get the idea I want to have sex with him when I am dead on my feet?
2007-09-01 16:35:32 · 10 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men are really, really stupid sometimes and just want sex.
2007-09-01 16:42:50 · answer #1 · answered by oh geez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that was rude. No he should have cared more about your needs and not as much about his sexual desires. I mean the fact that he had to leave for work and that 30 minutes was enough time well that's kinda rude. Yeah it may have been for him but what about you? Would you be happy with just 30 minutes of sex? So much for foreplay! I think it was inconsiderate of your feelings, myself. No guys do not think that I need a nap means I want sex, at lest I don't. I think it means I want a nap! He should have left or laid down with you in bed and taken a nap with you. I think that is kinda romantic and sexy. I did that with one of my old girlfriends from time to time. It felt kind of nice. =)
2007-09-01 16:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are 7.
2016-05-19 01:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it seems he was really... well horny. Guys generally don't "get it" when you are tired. He probably didn't even know you were tired. Would I think saying you needed a nap was an invitation for sex? No. I wouldn't get mad over it though.
2007-09-01 16:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand both your situations. It just seems like he was in the mood and u might not been, its okay. But guys dont take nap for sex, its conditional.
2007-09-01 16:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think for the most part, men are very self absorbed, and it doesn't occur to them how their partners may feel. Or some may just not care. It's all about them and their needs.
2007-09-01 16:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahahaha. I have to laugh because it's happened to me on more than one occasion. I think they equate anything with the bed with sex because you're already in the prone position. He should've seen the look in your eyes that you were tired.
2007-09-01 17:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by for7949 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys just have their weird ways of thinking. Or maybe he thought sex would make you happy and more, I don't know, alive?
2007-09-01 16:41:44 · answer #8 · answered by SmilE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually no, and they shouldnt. unless they are retarded and horny, then maybe yeah. u never know what goes on inside those kinds of guys' minds
2007-09-01 16:42:51 · answer #9 · answered by aprili 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah men are like that i don get it either, next time say please i just need to sleep, and then mabey he will leave you alone also he might have thought that you needed to be cheered up.
2007-09-01 16:42:27 · answer #10 · answered by Kelsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋