ok, im a 9th grader. im popular, hot, smart, spunky, flirty, and sweet, im really good friends with all the guys, but i want to have more, ive been kissed and all, but ive never had a boyfriend. whats wrong with me and what can i do to get one!
2007-09-01 16:07:26 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't really force yoursef to get a boyfriend. There IS something wrong with you: you're too CONCEITED! Just remember, if you're asking for sex, you shouldn't start at such a young age. Try to focus on school and getting good grades to make yourself proud. I'm sure your parents are counting on you! Learn something better than how to get a boy-friend! I knit, crochet, weave, finger-weave, make pom-poms, etc. You, A NINTH GRADER, should BE A GOOD EXAMPLE FOR ME, A SIXTH GRADER!
2007-09-01 16:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well miss spunky--at your age you would be better off worrying about your REAL priorities and let this social stuff happen later on. You want more??? More what?? You just be a nice girl and let nature take its course. If you are thinking of sex--forget it--you don't need a baby and all the stinky, crap filled diapers---and the screaming and crying all hours of the night--there is NO daycare for kids your age---and of course you don't need the fatal diseases some guys are walking around with because they needed more of whatever they thought they were missing. Slow down--it will all happen when the time is right.
2007-09-01 16:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know doesn't everyone just want someone to lean their head on and cry with while watching one of the saddest movies? Well I have. Nothing is wrong with you maybe because you are soooo spunky the guy is afraid when he is yours you will be hiper and I don't think guys like that lol. Just dont be a deprest woman either. LoL Just don't flirt overboard and just be yourself becuase you should never have to be someone else because you can't act like someone you aren't for the rest of your life. And if a guy would really like you he would like you for who you are not who you acting as someone else is acting!!! I hope this helped greatly!!!
2007-09-01 16:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ninth grade is a good time to develop what makes you a good friend. I know you are excited to have a bf, but it will happen in its time.
If anything is wrong with you, I would guess you suffer from arrogance and lookism. Just wondering, but are all the guys you are friends with considered hot and is that how you determine who your friends are? It seems implied by the way you write and the words you choose.
Maybe they would like it if you were more kind, and not just to "hot guys and cool girls only."
2007-09-01 16:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by Pamela B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offence, but you sound really... finding a nice word... well yeah, you obviously think you're all "that" for example : "plz hot guys or cool girls only?" to me you sound really mean and b****y, and you seem too full of yourself. you also seem slutty, "i've been kissed and all" well you kiss but don't have a boyfriend, there is something wrong with you but its not something on the outside or about pplz around you. Its about you like honestly YOU, from what i'm reading you seem mean, slutty, b****y, rude, and too full of yourself, fix that and you might find a guy.
2007-09-01 16:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by SmilE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look if you are using the word spunkey I'm pretty sure your not that hot i mean really who uses that word? lol but on a more serious note maybe u need to be more open not saying be a hoe but be less high manitance ya dig dont be afraid to approach guys and make the first move its 2007 for god sakes most of ex's have all initiated contact.
2007-09-01 16:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by brown eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well considering you are that (if you say) some guys may think you are out of there league. Find a way to let them know your out there and you want a boyfriend. Maybe at a school dance or somethin you should make a move go a little out of your way and let the boys know you want some from them. You could take me with you.lol. just playin. good luck finding someone!
2007-09-01 16:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Break the ice by asking him a question over something that - wouldn't you know it - you have the same interest as him. Are anything you listed things you could mention? The best way to show you're interested is to same something interesting that both can relate to in a casual way.
2016-04-02 23:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure you're the IT girl and all that, and you've had alot of action, but maybe if you get an attitude adjustment, guys might start wanting you for more than making out
2007-09-01 16:14:32 · answer #9 · answered by ... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
read your question. you may think that people are telling you you're being a conceited ***** because they're 'jealous' but listen. guys do like 'hot' girls, but from my experience, they really want someone down-to-earth, someone who will think as an equal not as a better. If you continue to act conceited no one will like you for real and you'll have a lot of fake friends and lonely life..SORRY, I'm not trying to sound rude
2007-09-01 16:14:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋