would you rather him
play it cool
act like he does not care
show you to much affection
The jealous type
2007-09-01 15:32:23 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Show affection
2007-09-01 15:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of the above. I'd rather he be himself and not put on some ridiculous show.
Playing it cool is basically the same as acting like he doesn't care. Both are undesirable. If you're playing a game and acting as if you don't like someone when you do, she'll find someone else. Showing too much affection is suffocating, as someone already said. You need to have your own life outside of her, and allow her to have the same. Jealousy is even worse than too much affection. It shows not that you care, but that you're insecure and possessive. Very unattractive.
2007-09-01 15:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Affection with a touch of territoralism.
He should always be sweet but not smothering.
And as for jealousy, he can show some but never be controlling over her.
Never ever act like you don't care. That's the Best way to make a girl feel horrible if she has even the slightest interest in you.
2007-09-01 15:37:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would NEVER be with a jealous guy, they're the worse!!
Too much affection could be suffocating.
I guess I would have to say, "play it cool", is the more tolerable of the choices.
2007-09-03 04:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by M. Rod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course show affection being jealious causes a lot of problems, and that's a sure fire turn off. So men should always play it cool until he knows what's up. And never act as tho' he doesn't care because he'll just be fooling himself.
2007-09-01 15:43:09 · answer #5 · answered by D.S.C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like affection in public but it really depends on who is around
I don't like men being jealous unless there is a very good reason for it (i.e. another guy has tried to kiss/touch etc.)
men who are affectionate in private and 'tough guys' in public are intoxicating to every girl I know
2007-09-01 15:43:47 · answer #6 · answered by rose_malice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not too much affection just enough to know he cares. A little jealousy is fine but nothing to over the top.
2007-09-01 15:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after a rough relationship, and alot of learning and growing up, i think that i would rather someone be honest. no games, no "playing it cool" no "acting"-affection is good, jealousy is fine in SMALL amounts..it shows they care but watch your step- subtle jealousy, NOT enraged fits of accusation...;o) be cool, be funny, show them a good time, show them you care about THEM, that you want them to be safe, but also make it known that you have your own life to live, and that no matter what, you'll be honest and faithful, but you won't forget to live seperate lives along with the one your building together ;o) hope i could help !!
2007-09-01 15:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by thatgirluknow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely too much affection. You don't need someone who doesn't care or who even acts like he doesn't care. As for the jealous, you don't need someone who doesn't trust you either.
2007-09-01 15:36:37 · answer #9 · answered by littleone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me personally, I like a man that is just as cool as I am!! I am laid back, eay to talk to and pleasant to look at. Thats how I like my men. Dont beat around the bush with me. Tell me what u looking for and ill help you find it if i dont have it, lol
2007-09-01 15:37:16 · answer #10 · answered by tay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋