Because, of something BAD that has happened to
you in the past...and that Anniversary is almost here...Please tell me, how do you cope with this? Sometimes the more I try to cope with it, the worse it gets.
2007-09-01 14:35:51 · 12 answers · asked by Kerilyn 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I dont sweetie , I try not to cling to the past
and even at times like anniversaries of death ... I prefer to remember the happier times
so I will make a point of celebrating their birthday ( literally ) than remembering the day they died
so it is replacing a negative day for something more positive
if you want to email me and explain ... maybe I can help
as it is difficult not knowing your situation
( only if you want to of course )
(((((((ker))))))))
2007-09-01 14:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Fall is a time of melancholy for me. I suffered some of my most painful losses as the leaves began to turn. I think fall brings back a lot of mixed emotions for many people. I have come to the point that I take some time for myself, usually late at night, and put on some of my old music and just embrace the memories. Not often, just when I feel the pressure of holding back my emotions in a way that is not good for me. Bless you, Kerilyn. May you find a peace that passes all understanding for whatever grieves you.
2007-09-01 22:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by One Wing Eagle Woman 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
10/17 and 10/24. Those are the days I lost my two beloved teacup pomeranians, Sugar and Honey. 11/26 and 1/7 the days I lost my two beloved poodles, Roxy and Rex. I still cry. Love has no boundries. Oh, how I miss them all so.
2007-09-01 21:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. December 18 is a tough day for me because it was the day my only child/son died suddenly. I usually try to spend the day with a friend or family member and also spend special time with the Lord in prayer. It all helps!
2007-09-01 21:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by Devoted1 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
December 25th at 7:00pm (central). I get really sad that I have to wait another year for the 24 hour marathon of "A Christmas Story."
2007-09-01 22:03:35 · answer #5 · answered by Patrick the Carpathian, CaFO 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know dear Kerilyn, Whats gone is actually in a much more safer Place. Hopefully a Place for us all too. Our evetual destination where there are only pure souls who are non-judgemental, loving, humble and truthful. In otherwords, whatever you have lost comes around in better form. Dont fear it but face it!
2007-09-01 21:48:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have issues with every single day of the year. Mainly because I have to get out of bed.
2007-09-01 22:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by Becca 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Several. But you wouldn't want to cope the way I do. So sorry, Kerilyn :(
We all love you, sweetie :)
2007-09-01 22:05:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yea, December 1988, I was in Panama for Operation "Just Cause". I had to shoot a guy who was shooting at my friends.
He popped up from behind a car we were walking towards and sprayed in our direction. i punched him with 3 bursts from my m-16a2. He was dead before he hit the ground.
I just remeber that I didn't cause the situation, I just delt with it.
2007-09-01 21:47:24 · answer #9 · answered by The Forgotten 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes i understand ..i usually hate it when july arrives...it kinda brings problems with it.
have a nice day : )
2007-09-01 22:23:08 · answer #10 · answered by RoChEr 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋