i had sex for the frist time and now.. the guy that i had itwith he wont talkt o me so what do i do i dont no how to get a hold of 2 and i like him alot we where going out but than broke up than too day later had sex so yeah i dont no what to do he could be mad cas ei ask him aging if he want to but he said o annd i dont no why but i like him alot and wannt him back so what should do ..
2007-09-01 13:52:33 · 32 answers · asked by delaneybaird13db 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg thats so bad girl
i know what it is like cause it happened to my sis
it was hard to her but she moved on and now she is happy with her new bf who loves her truly
i think you should move on 2
hope you be safe and welll
2007-09-01 13:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the 1st time could be painful while the hymen breaks upon penetration. There is often some blood from recognizing to truly bleeding. not all women bleed and not all have soreness. I in no way bled yet there replaced right into a great form of soreness. There does not could desire to be blood or soreness, yet by using actuality that maximum adult adult males do not be conscious of what they are doing and ladies 'supply in' to intercourse to delight their companion quite of waiting till they are extremely waiting and aroused, soreness happens whether blood does not. The hymen is the thin membrane that generally covers the hollow to the vagina while you're a virgin. whether you have not had intercourse, the hymen can do slightly a disappearing act by using an overzealous workout recurring on the well-being club, horseback using, tampons, or perhaps passionate "heavy petting" along with your boyfriend. (it is not an impenetrable barrier, besides, because it has holes to permit menstrual blood to flee.) For some, the 1st few circumstances could make you sense sore, by using fact the vagina has been an unused muscle or perhaps harm while you at the instant are not good lubricated, or if the guy is in a rush, does not arouse you and your physique isn't waiting. relaxing, foreplay, (oral intercourse, touching, kissing, etc) being totally aroused or greater valuable yet, you having an orgasm FIRST or using a lubricant like KY-Jelly or Astro-drift can help.
2016-10-17 10:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by your savage butchery of the English language, I'd say you have below average grades. Your 13 years old (?) and in the what, the 7th or 8th grade?
First off, your headed for a life in the trailer park nearest you, if you don't straighten up. Save sex for when your old enough and educated enough, to support a child on your own.
Look at what this guy did from just having sex, he ran for cover. What the heck do you think he'd do if you got pregnant?
With your lack of verbal skills, you'd be lucky to get a job cleaning toilets at Wal-marts. You can't even structure a simple sentence, put forth your ideas, and form a direct, simple question.
Hope and pray your not pregnant, dump this guy, stay away from sex and work on getting top notch grades in school.
I've seen too many girls like you, toss their futures down the crapper like this. The girl ends up with all the responsibility, while the boy continues with his life.
Yeah, I'm an old meanie, if you want something sweet, go to Baskin and Robbins. What happens from now, is all up to you.
Choose wisely, you only have one go around, don't muck it up.
2007-09-01 14:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry to say that yes, he did use you. He got what he was after and left you. You no longer serve a purpose to him anymore. He was wrong to do what he did, but some guys are just that way. Once they get what they want from you they don't care and move on to the next person. All I can say is pick up the pieces of your life and don't try to contact him again. If by chance he tries to contact you, believe me he will only want sex and nothing more from you. I am sorry to hear he was your first sexual experience because some first sexual experience with someone you care about can be very special. Take care.
2007-09-01 14:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by Denese 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well. the man is a big Pig so, why you want to be with a person who didnt treat you right? He is clearly telling you that he doesnt like you and go away. If he did that to you is simply beacuse he doesnt care about you at all. Dont give pearls to pigss... they wont appreciate them... they are animals and they only appreciate garbage, thats what they like and thats what they deserve. All I can tell you is dont treat a man the way you want him to treat you. What i mean by that is not to treat them bad, but most women forgive them and treat them toooo nicely and sweet because thats how they (US) want to be treated... but you know what? THAT DOESNT WORK.. a man will appreaciate that maybe and only if he loves you, and for that to happen, well,, it takes time. That is the best advice that i can give and one more... dont go to bed with any f&*^*g man if you dont know him that well. and even if you know him... people lie, and he can give you any kind of wierd desease.... So, forget about that nasty mutant (pig & dog mutant) and focus in yourself. Things that doesnt kill you makes you stronger. Learn from the experience. and dont worry. There are plenty of man in this world, so is not worth to suffer for anybody.
2007-09-01 14:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by SweetSecret 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sweetheart, this might hurt now, but in the long run, u will survive...This has happened to me be 4 and with time, u will get over it...Give it a couple of days or maybe a week... when he sees that u r not running him down, he'll be running u down..... The first time is special, but don't let it bring u down...keep ur head up
2007-09-01 14:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
let this be a lesson dont have sex to early in a relationship. make the guy wait. if he truely like you, he will wait. I can't really understand what you wrote, its kinda confusing, but to me it sounds like you broke up then had sex--if thats the case its your own fault.
2007-09-01 14:32:58 · answer #7 · answered by lil vamp 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First I would say learn how to write proper English. Then I would say that you have just learned a very difficult lesson. You need to use better judgment in all walks of life.
2007-09-01 13:58:27 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetness 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Pay attention to how you're feeling now, and the next time you think about havign sex, remember this feeling! He used you, doesn't want to be with you. Stop liking him - that's just shameful, on your part!
2007-09-01 14:16:21 · answer #9 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie, guys can be mean, and he probably used you for sex. Guys do that sometimes -- they act like they're all into you, but all they want is the sex.
I'm sorry that happened to you.
2007-09-01 13:57:31 · answer #10 · answered by Molly 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Poor girl, you were used and abused. You need to stop trying to get in contact with him and realize you made a mistake and move on and never let this happen again.
2007-09-01 13:57:14 · answer #11 · answered by Crazy 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋