sooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, i met this angel looking girl who just happens i mean really happens to be the female verision of me , i really mean it when i say it, u wouldnt even imagine .
but but but but but but but but
shes just not the same religion as me :(
thats allllllllllllllllllllll
aint nothin wrong with her or me, or the relationship just that it
shes chrisitian n im muslim
2007-09-01 13:52:21 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really love her tho :(
2007-09-01 13:53:24 · update #1
ofcourse i wanna marry her u idiot
2007-09-01 14:00:00 · update #2
i STRONGLY disagree with people that say religion does not matter...BECAUSE IT MOST CERTAINLY DOES...ALOT! if you are not big on your religion then change to hers. but if yall both truely believe in your religion then things will be very complicated for yall when you get married and your both doing wrong by marring people of the opposite religions.
in the future it will cause serious problems and arguements between beliefs.
think about this:
will yall go to church when you get married?? BY YOUSELVES?
what religion will your kids be?? are you going to fight over who will take whose religion?
what holidays will you celebrate?? is one of ou going to celebrate one holiday with their family while the other just sits at home doing nothing??
think about things like that.
it changes your life
2007-09-09 06:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by blondebaby11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you know each other well yet, so you seem to be putting the cart before the horse.
First you have to go out with each other and find out if you really have as much in common as you seem to think. If you can get over that obstacle, you'll have to face the religious issue.
How important is religion to each of you? Christians can legally marry Muslims, and Muslims can legally marry Christians in most countries, but community taboos may make this awkward. Is one or both of you willing to give up your religion? Are you willing to convert?
What about family and friends?
Where do you live? If you live in a Western country you should not have too many problems, but if you live in a largely Muslim country it may prove more difficult. Is your community segregated by religion? If so, in which part of the community will you live if you get married? Are you willing to accept rejection from members of your own religious community, and/or hostility from members of your partner's?
2007-09-09 18:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by dirty t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not an idiot and I think that love shines through all religious differences. I appreciate your loyalty to your religion, but day to day interaction with the person you love is so important. What if you never find a Muslim girl that makes you feel the way this girl does....you will regret letting her go forever! My husband is Jewish and I am Catholic from Germany.....we love each other and respect our religious differences. If you love her nothing really else matters, you know?
2007-09-02 21:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by hazeleyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
religion or culture should not matter love doesn't have color age or any specific thing its only something that two people feel about each other the fact that you two have a different religion should not intefer wiht you two that is just a stupid reason to be honest with you. come on i ahve myf riend she is hilipino and she goes with an hispanic i am haitian and i went out with an indian the whole color thing barely exist anymore people from totally oposite cultures are geting intimate whith each other and people from totally different bacgrounds religion adn so on are doing the same. my best friend is muslim and i'm catholic doens't seem to give me a problem so i hope that i was able to help
2007-09-02 21:01:12 · answer #4 · answered by ROCK LEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow yeah that is a sticky situation ..... I think if you love her, and she makes you happy ... then i wouldn't let anything stand in the way of that! I don't know what really to tell you ... since you really can't just change your religion so I guess you should pray about it! I hope it all turns out okay for you .... and if not you could still be the best of friends!
2007-09-01 20:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by Bubble S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes religion does not matter..i mean my bf and i were talking what if we were to get married and we too are different religions: he is Catholic and I am Greek Christian Romanian Orthodox..in our case conversion would be necessary yet do not make your religion get the best of this!think of the movie "My Big Fat Greek Wedding " and how the guy was so in love that he even converted to being Greek
2007-09-03 16:48:20 · answer #6 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The two of you are unequally yoked.
Religion is such a big thing in a relationship. Think about your and her parents, possible children, etc.
Think long and hard about whether you want to stay with her. If you choose to end it, end it before both of your feelings get too deep.
2007-09-08 18:46:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about muslims, but christians preach to not date/marry people who aren't christian. (The bible says to "be not unequally yoked with nonbelievers.") That will be a problem if she's a devout christian or if you are a devout muslim. I'm going to say that it probably won't work in the long run, especially if you get married (what faith would your children be?).
2007-09-02 20:57:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have respect for her family, upbringing, and religion and leave her the heck alone!! Go find a nice Muslim girl.
2007-09-02 20:57:07 · answer #9 · answered by wildgirldancing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you love her and want to marry her the different religion is going to be a big issue. christian and muslim are very different and if she's serious about her religion you're going to have to face things when you have kids.
2007-09-09 20:16:49 · answer #10 · answered by angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋