He said he didnt realise he had done it because he was talking to me at the time. I dont know what to think
2007-09-01 13:34:53 · 10 answers · asked by BrOwN_eYEd_GiRl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because he denied it, it must have meant something, so you were right to be upset.
If he was just being nice, and didn't mean anything by it, then you could have gone easier on him.
Good call.
2007-09-01 13:39:38 · answer #1 · answered by Molly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you were probably right to be a little miffed, but you might have taken it a bit too far. A wink isn't representative of anything...it doesn't mean he's cheating, or wants to and it doesn't mean he doesn't care about you. It means he winked. As women we're always looking for an underlying meaning in men's behavior because so often there is underlying meaning in our own behavior. But the truth is, with guys sometimes a wink is just a wink.
That being said, it clearly bothers you and you have a right to express that feeling. Instead, next time, it might be better if you say calmly a little while after the fact, "You know, it really bothers me when you do x,y, or z when you're with me." It's a way of being honest and straightforward without seeming totally emotional, plus he's more likely to take you serious instead of think that you overreacted.
2007-09-01 20:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by skycat119 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You could have talked to him about it politly then drop it, but you souldnt have yelled at him though since it was only a wink. I would say that your sorry to be honest and try not to get so jelous.
2007-09-01 20:40:41 · answer #3 · answered by Marissa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WRONG!
Jesus, girl. If winking is going to give you a heart ache what's going to happen when he really does flirt? And sweetie, all people flirt, whether they admit it or not.
2007-09-01 20:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you made a mountain out of a molehill.
2007-09-01 20:38:44 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
no guys do it naturaly and are big flirts no matter what. its easyer just to forget about it and tell him how it made you feel
2007-09-01 20:40:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're really that jealous, the relationship will never last.
2007-09-01 20:37:59 · answer #7 · answered by Elt 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should have invited her over for a threesome!!! your boyfriend would love you for that.
2007-09-01 20:44:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
jealousy is a good thing...run with that...that will keep him for sure.
2007-09-01 20:38:44 · answer #9 · answered by 2sexxxy32 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he's a flirt, but chill out, you can't control him.
2007-09-01 20:37:48 · answer #10 · answered by hot tea 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋