I miss the way my ex usd to kiss my neck. And i miss the way he usd to whisper in my ear and tell me he lovd me and then kiss my cheek. I also miss the way he usd to hold me and look into my eyes then lean in and kiss me slowly. I feel like crap! He cheated on me with my sister! Even tho he cheated on me, y do i feel so terrible! I just wish i had one more day with him just so i could feel his arms around me and his lips on mine. Im loosin all my frends cause im depressed all the time! How do i get ovr this? =(
2007-09-01 13:28:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just gotta give that skunkbag time. Remind youself that you dont deserve him anyway.
No one is worth your tears, and the people who are, would never make you cry.
2007-09-01 13:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by Marissa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So it happened. Stop re-living the past and accept what happened. You'll have to forgive your sister and this boy.
Be happy for the time you had together and all lessons you learned. Take time out for yourself and don't be in such a hurry to get all entangled with some guy. Learn to love yourself and be happy with who you are first before getting involved with the next guy.
There's a reason why things like this happen, and it mostly so that we can learn big lessons from it. The more painful the bigger the lesson and longer we remember it. But, we become stronger and better for it in the long run.
Get away from that guy and move forward. Forgiveness doesn't mean that you approve of what happened, it just means that you're not going to allow what they did to hurt you any longer. You must take full control of your emotions and your life. Respect yourself first above anything else. Forgive, be gentle to yourself and learn that love begins within yourself.
2007-09-01 20:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by All That Glitters isn't Gold 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are always better fish in the sea. Personally, I think he is scum if he cheated with ur sister. Get out, hang with friends, a new man will come along soon! The more u are occupied the less ull forget bout ur ex!
2007-09-01 20:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by alichs2002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All I can tell you is that it will take time. You also have to separate yourself from him in every way. I certainly hope he's not continuing to date your sister because that's just low! However, your sister sounds like a winner. Hows your relationship with her? If you two are on good terms ask her nicely not to see him again. If you are not, you might have to beat her down.
2007-09-01 20:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by drivn2excelchery 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just take it slowly and don't jump into another relationship. And please don't be stupid and get back to the dude that cheated on you with your OWN SISTER!
Your sister should be feeling terrible now..... go out with your friends whenever you feel like you are ready to go out again, don't rush. Don't worry, you are not losing your friends, they are just giving you space, time to heal.
2007-09-01 20:36:22 · answer #5 · answered by Yes_It's_Me! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he cheated on you with your SISTER? thats some ****** up **** for your sister to be doing. you dont miss him, you miss the love and attention he gave you. you can find it in another person. go hang out with your friends and flirt with dudes. that should make you feel better. sorry to hear this.
2007-09-01 20:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. He's a jerk. You have to find other interests and maybe new friends. Loss is always hard, but you have to find a way to cope. Don't give him any satisfaction that you are whining over him.
2007-09-01 20:33:57 · answer #7 · answered by Dianne 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes time, but you WILL get over it. Allow yourself to wallow for a little time, but not TOO long. You must allow yourself to wallow. After a period of time, get rid of all of his stuff, pics etc. Don't talk to him and keep yourself busy. In time, you will get through it.
Keep your head up and be strong!
2007-09-01 20:35:39 · answer #8 · answered by davabombshell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to move on he didnt have your best interest when he cheated so why take him back he is jus gonna take it as a sign of weakness and find away to cheat when you are alot deeper in your relationship
2007-09-01 20:33:05 · answer #9 · answered by Loopy-d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Broken hearts are always a good lead to write poetry.
2007-09-01 20:42:54 · answer #10 · answered by Awesomeness 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋