there is this guy that i met in one of my college classes. for some reason, i was instantly drawn to him by instinct and i got to know him. we quickly got along but i also found out that he battles his mind. he thinks too much about the things i say even though he says that he thinks i'm great and such. so yesterday, i thought it was to be the day we were going to go out. we kissed, held hands, and was just happy. however, he never said the words "do you want to go out with me?" nor did he change his myspace status. i woke up with a bad instinct. sure enough, he tells me all this stuff like "i dont want you to see my bad side " "dont question me, you should know it" .all because i wanted reassurance that he really did like me since i never heard it from him before. i mean, is it hard for a guy to say "i like you" to a girl who tells you that and that he likes? he ended with a "your mentally not ready for someone of my caliber, i'm sorry". what do u think about this? what can i do?
2007-09-01 13:00:57 · 5 answers · asked by cellie_mania 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i see myself in this guy because i also battle my mind. i really am interested in this guy. his thoughts remind me of my thoughts and i want to help him. i'm willing to have patience neccessary with him and stick with him even if things go really bad. he has confidence issues and a mental disorder, or so he says.
2007-09-01 13:10:37 · update #1
He's just not that into you and he thinks you are a lesser person than he is. Move on.
2007-09-01 13:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow and i though i was crazy lol. i also have the problem that i think too much about everything and i have battles with my mind, like if my mind is a completely different entity inside me. but I still tell my gf how much a care about her. And I was the first one to ask that we should start going out. I just keep most of my complicated thoughts to myself, unless they are simple and worthy enough for conversation you know? That guy though seems really confused....if i were you i would be kind of freaked out right now lol.
2007-09-01 13:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be blunt, he's a dumbass. he just wants to sound cool in front of u. trust me on this. he's a jerk and u should hav realized it. im a guy by the way so for me to tell u this means i kno wat im talkin about. his little comments about his mind is to just make himself feel like he is above u. and yes, it is hard for guys to admit they like some1. but to be an *** like that is not right. he used u and u fell for it cuz u were in lov. thats wat happens wen u like som1 so much, u forget to think. let this a lesson, young one (im only 17 but i kno alot about this matter),dont do things cuz u like some1. ull end up with a kid, no job and no husband. foget this dude. he thinks he's all mighty, he's just full of bullshit. and u should tell him that. his mind is no greater nor complex than urs. god forbid he even tried to hav my brain for a day. lol and his bad side is probably the side that would beat u. so i would stay away from this weirdo/megalomaniac/jerk/girlbeater. hope i helped. well good luck. : )
2007-09-01 13:14:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not be mature enough if you are gaging your interactions on him changing his myspace after 1 kiss. He's playing mind games with you and you are letting him win.
2007-09-01 13:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by That NC Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has some serious issues and has a big ego.. if i had to harbor a very assuptious guess i would say he is scitzo..
2007-09-01 13:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋