I am 40 and a 28 year old is attracted to me. I am very flattered but I can't understand why, when he should be attracted to someone around his own age. Why is this?
2007-09-01 12:21:06 · 11 answers · asked by katey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then you must be pretty and in good shape. Most 40 some thing's know what they want. Guys like confidence. Take it as a compliment! I think it's great!
2007-09-01 12:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by ????? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of younger guys are attracted to older women because older women play less games. And at 40 you know what you want.
2007-09-01 12:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
These days? I was attracted to older men back in my days. Now that I'm a senior I still find older men attractive.
2016-05-18 23:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger I was attracted to older women. Now that I'm older I want them younger. Life is funny like that.
2007-09-01 12:26:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is attractive. Older women generally have their life together and often have much to be confident about. Now, I won't say that all younger men want older women, but it's certainly not odd to me.
2007-09-01 12:26:00 · answer #5 · answered by Beaver1224 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well first off let me say I understand about being flattered but I think most men younger look for an older woman figuring she has her own home and she is already emotionally and financially stable . that spells sugar mama to them it means they are looking for someone to take care of them . good luck though .
2007-09-01 12:35:37 · answer #6 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is very common age is just a number to most people.
2007-09-01 12:26:49 · answer #7 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is normal for some guys (myself included). Older women seem more comfortable with themselves, less likely to play games, and know what they want.
2007-09-01 12:24:21 · answer #8 · answered by PoliSciGuy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Iam 34 and is currently seeing a hot sexy lady of 45.. usualy it is the other way around.. i have pondered on that q myself..all my previous lady friends have been much younger then me.. my last one was 21 and I dont do anything to entise the relationships.. they just come on to me..why worry , it will keep you young... enjoy
2007-09-01 12:29:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have guys 21 and a little older asking me out and wanting to hang out.. and I think its like the other guy said on here... we dont play games and we know what we want..... dont question "why" just have fun..........................
2007-09-01 12:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋