please help im to my breaking point?

Question

please i havent cut for two months and now that school started my mom is being more of a b**** and school is stress meing out and now im to the point were i cant help but cut ive only cut four times not to deep but i fell like i need to start cutting deeper and deeper

Answer 1

When you get cut or hurt in general your body releases chemicals that make you feel better it is a natural defense mechanism.

IT IS NOT FOR HELPING YOU DEAL WITH STRESS.

You shouldn't do that to yourself. It isn't healthy. I know this is really cliche but you should really talk to somebody about it (besides random strangers over the Internet).

If anything EAT CHOCOLATE! That isn't really healthy either but it is a heck of alot better than cutting.

Or Eat cake! If you don't have a cake BAKE ONE. It is fun and doing something productive can help deal with your stress.

Answer 2

Talk to your school counselor, or another trusted adult. If necessary, you may need to be removed from your mother's care, being that she is being so insensetive to your needs. Do you have an Aunt, or maybe a friend you can stay with? You need professional help, and I think you know that. Cutting yourself isn't going to solve any problems, it is merely a symptom of the stress and anxiety you are feeling. You need to be able to talk to someone who won't judge you, and has only your best interests at heart. You can always call a suicide hot line, they may be able to refer you to a place where you can get help despite your mom. Don't give up, and try not to let school stress you out. Just ignore all the idiots who like to tease and be mean, they are only trying to make themselves feel better. Concentrate on your education, and getting yourself the help you need. You can accomplish anything if you want it bad enough. Hang in there.

Answer 3

I'm sure this is hard on all of you. I live with my parents, my sister and have a 4 year old son so i kinda understand where you are coming from. I am going to be moving out soon but only after 3 years of saving a bit and it has had its hard times! I love my family but i expect you are having a similar problem with the fact there are so many personalities to consider in the house and also things have changed a lot since your Nan had a child. Maybe you could talk to the council and see if there is any way you might be considered for housing. She has watched you grow up and probably finds it difficult to see you as an adult with your own family, treating you like a child. Sit her down and talk to her. Make sure your little one is asleep and that you are both able to talk and not rush off. See if she has concerns and express your feelings too. Hope it all sorts itself out!

Answer 4

Don't do it. Find another way to relieve your stress at life. Look into meditation, it really helps. Talk to your Mum about why you are stressy, she will only want to understand and help you. I am a Mum too, I know if you were my kid I would go out of my way to help you any way I could. She knows you better than anyone. Try to find the root source of your stress, I mean the true deep seated root cause. It could be lots of things but look at the cause of those things and the cause of the cause until you get to the very heart of what it is. I find I get stressy if two people talk at once. Its sometimes that simple. I have learned to put my hand up to one of them and say 'i am sorry, just a moment' attend to the other and then make sure I get back to the first to not seem rude. I mean, no one can listen to two people at once, can they!

You could look into your condition, I am guessing there's a lot about it on the net. Treat it like a project to understand yourself better and give yourself some loving care, we all deserve to love ourselves.

http://www.wikihow.com/Meditate

Answer 5

Cutting is a way for you to feel something. I am not sure that coming here as opposed to going to your local ER is appropriate.

As a former psych nurse? I suggest you call 911 or go to your local ER,

As a human being, who is tired of your generations pathetic attempt to reach out for attention? I have to say "whatever.....have at it if that is what floats your boat.

But, don't cry out for help when all you can do is call your mom bad names and blame everyone for your troubles.

See babe.....most serious cutters will do it quietly and never tell anyone.

But you? You are crying out for attention that you won't accept anyway. Even if you did? It would never be enough...you have to be noticed and you have to get the attention all the time,


You are a spoiled child that will have psych issues all your life if you don't cut the crap and get treatment for your obvious need to remain an idiot.

Your life seems to suck...because right now that's the way you want it.

Grow up and cut the crap ......start by making adult choices. You think that everyone is out to get you. Everyone treats you bad.

What is going on is that you have a bad attitude on your life and you need dicipline, LOTS OF IT.

Get over yourself. If you cut deep enough...your problems will be over but better still ....so will the problems of the poor people that have to deal with your sorry childish butt when you are alive.

Answer 6

You need to seek professional help immediately! It is great to have family or friends for support, but when it comes to cutting yourself, or feeling the need to hurt yourself, only professionals can help. No matter what difficulties you have in life right now, they will be much greater if you continue down this road. You are not alone. There are many support groups, hot-lines, and doctors in your area - seek them out.

Answer 7

You don't really say what the problem is. I have to wonder if maybe the problem itself does not matter and that you do not really want to find a solution. Call the help center for suicide as someone suggested. There seems to be a lot of things you do not want to face and you should talk to someone about it.

Answer 8

How can you even think of hurting yourself like this. Surely life can never be that bad. Maybe you need to talk to your mum and try and explain how you feel. I bet if you are honest with your feelings your mum will understand. do you have friends who you can talk to?? Every one has problems and life is never perfect so just hang in there and think positive. Good Luck.

Answer 9

You need to chill out girl. Your too caught up with here and now. Think about your problems compared to your whole life. If you are worried about something, ask your self if you are going to be worrying about it in one month, and if not then don't worry about it, its probably something stupid. If someone is pissing you off ask yourself if you are going to be pissed of at that person in one month and if not then let it go.Remember if you feel like crap think of something funny and it will help you get over your small problems.

Keep on smiling

Answer 10

You may FEEL the need to cut, but you can CHANGE your feelings.

Love Jack