WEll one of mine did. HERES the problem.MY gf is engaged to a man named sam.SAM has a problem telling his sister to back off.SHE gets in their business,SHE spreads rumor and steals from my gf. I believe SAMS sister is jealous of my gf.
THE sad thing is this , SAM dose nothing. and Sam goes on like everything is ok ,when its not.
NOW my gf Brenda dont want to marry him because he puts family first over her.
I BELIEVE she is correct calling it off maybe even the friendship as well.WHAT do you think?
2007-09-01 10:14:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I think your friend has done the right thing also..cant start a marrage that will proberly be doomed from day one..a marrage is between two people not the whole family..whilst family is important the marrying couple are starting thier own branch of the family tree
2007-09-01 10:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has probably never had to do anything that required him choosing his girlfriend over his family so he doesn't understand what that means yet. I would stay out of it as other posters have mentioned but I'd encouraged her to talk to him about what the problem is before she just packs it in on her relationship.
2007-09-01 12:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by indydst8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something that only they can work out. Just tell her that no matter how much you love her, you can't decide what is for her, she needs to sit down and talk to her fiance and make her decision based on what she wants and what she can put up with. its not up to you, she is the one that will live her decision the rest of her life
2007-09-01 10:42:48 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Always Right 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I'm engaged and my family comes first always. blood is thicker than water but at the same time she should tell him how she feels so that he can approach his sister and if he don't then she needs to. he should say something but he is not a mind reader. tell her to express herself to him and if he dose nothing then call it off cause then he is nit balancing the two.
2007-09-02 02:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by beautifull103087 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At a youthful age, its attainable in case you had intercourse on the final day of your era for sperm to stay 5 days max. You ovulate around or approximately 14 days after your era. i might say its extraordinarily impossible for it to be the different adult men in case you even are pregnant. i understand youre fearful, yet wait till you realize if youre pregnant or to no longer thoroughly be wrapped up in this. fairly in case you basically slept with the guy as quickly as on the final day of your era or for the time of your era while in comparison with napping with your boyfriend usually the infant may well be your boyfriends. If although youve slept with the guy everywhere close to or around 9 days after your era ended then identity DEFINETLY be fearful. basically dont sleep aroud whilst ttc, it wouldnt be solid in case you obtain pregnant and fairly didnt understand who the father become. solid success!
2016-10-19 21:29:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think youshould stay out of it, I know that you are trying to ba a good friend but they are limits and even though she ask you for advice is better for you to tell he that you don't want to get involve because all this can affect your friendship.
2007-09-01 10:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by totygoliguez1989 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think Brenda made the correct choice for her . . . . and that is all that matters.
2007-09-02 02:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by Suz123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't win on this one either way.
2007-09-06 21:17:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to.... am not sure....talk to them
2007-09-01 10:39:28 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋