Well weird odd question.........i know.
But in islam do 2 couples love eachother does it even exist?
And when i say LOV E i mean like affection to eachother
any muslims couples like kiss..................please be honest
2007-09-01 09:57:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
a couple in love is obliged to marry.
their marriage means they will love each other, kiss , and do all they need as normal male and female.
God has created us with our instincts.these instincts are regulated and made halal by marriage.
2007-09-01 10:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by Moonrise 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
nobody can go to your heart and stop you from loving somebody or being loved in any culture because it's mother nature - but kissing a girl who is not your wife may lead to unpleasant consequences in the Islamic society - i think it is all about decency - females are used now in every country,every culture from all religions - in my opinion men take advantage of women now like never before in history - they take their money - they use their bodies in very strange ways including bringing other men to do them as well - betraying them with other women and men - it's all done by using the word (love) - but if you notice very well : you will find that the protective way of Muslems led to lesser rate of Aids and VD - more population - and practically no pornography or child abuse or drug related problems - ordinary Muslems don't accept the mistreatment of women - and the hardliners are always here or there - something else is that Arabs before Islam had the habit of killing their new born babies if they were females - they only wanted boys - the Prophet Mohammed'wife died and she was 69 while he was 54 - that's how dry the place was of women - and the girl who became later his wife was supposedly 9 years old and not 7 as some people claim - the actual age was not really
known because people didn't have any kind of records similar to what the churches do -
but generally people all over the world at the time considered marrying a 10 years old ok - remember we are talking about events that happened 1400 years ago and not how we look at matters now .
2007-09-01 11:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you think we wouldn't. We have normal marriages. The good and the bad. I don't share to much of my private life on here but just for you so you will realize we live normal lives I will share a little bit of my day for you.
This morning my husband was cranky and got me and my prego hormones all shock up and I cried for awhile. Then he said he was sorry, gave me a kiss. We played with our kids, put then down for a nap then had some private time together. He is now taking a nap and I am on here answering your question. Sound like a normal couple to you.
I love my husband deeply. He is a great husband, father and a good Muslim. You wanna know something funny. My non Muslim father was abusive to my mom and his kids. We had no religion growing up, I ventured out for religion on my own. He was raciest and just mean man. It took Islam and my husband encouraging me to forgive my father. I didn't know real love to I married my Muslim husband.
Now there are some marriages that there is not love, but there are many non Muslim marriages that don't have it either.
Hope that answers your question.
2007-09-01 10:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by Umm Ali 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Interesting Question, let me give you my story as an answer...
I always held Allah in my heart, but was brought up in a really non-religious family. My granny and my mom don't even believe in the afterlife. But I do, always did. I had a crush on a girl at 13, but it was, at that time, a really normal crush. But, with time, it evolved into something much, much deeper. I realized that Allah was the only one who could possibly help me. So I started 5-time prayers, giving to th poor out of my own pocket money, that kinda thing. So, in a way, my love bought me to religion. I'm 15 now, and the 1st anniversary of the day my crush evolved into love and truly bought me towards religion is approaching (7th September), and yes, I remember. I feel affection and do wanna kiss her and marry her and want her to love me back. But even now, and above all, I want to lead her by the hand along the right path to heaven.
2007-09-01 10:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by hameerabbasi 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The first time I married, I married a Christian man in a church. We were "in love." The marriage lasted less than two years.
The second time, I married a Muslim man, about two months after I had been formally introduced to him as a potential marriage partner. Once we had agreed to the marriage and my guardian had approved it, my fiance saw a photograph of me without my scarf.
When we married, we had never touched each other or been alone together.
We've been married for twenty years now. We love each other, of course, but our relationship goes beyond mere physical and romantic love, because it's based on mutual respect and understanding, and, most of all, on our relationship with Allah.
In answer to your second question, of course Muslim couples have physical relationships--where do you think the children come from?
2007-09-01 21:39:29 · answer #5 · answered by HayatAnneOsman 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
bismillah ar rahman ir raheem.my husband and i have been married for 13 yrs. as Muslims.11 children.all in the house as i type.i can assure you that true love,passionate and affectionate love is possible even 13 yrs later.we have learned that the air does not have to be filled with 'i love you' all day every day.simple actions and gestures take the place of all that and more.just a little brush of his hand when i walk by or doin the dishes without askin.you know? little things.we do kiss, friendly when its needed passionate when its the right time.so dont fear .Islam has made our relationship more fulfilling indeed.and we need not forget that we are human with God given needs.
2007-09-01 10:10:20 · answer #6 · answered by monica a 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
im not going to go into too much detail... but i love my husband, and he loves me! when i married him we didn't loveeach other because we hadn't known eachother that long and every time we spoke my Dad was there so itwas a bit akward. but i already loved him for the sake of Allah because he was a good muslim so i put my trust in Allah and now two years later we very happy and in love and have a son..
i hope that willgive you a more understanding about the way our marriages work
2007-09-01 10:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey I'm a Muslim.
Of course love exists in Muslim marriages and of course they kiss! The answers above me are interesting, but I have a few lectures to show everyone.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=8_dBjqzB8o4
This is by Ahmed Deedat. He talks about polygamy in Islam.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=-wHGWTvbY4g
I dont know the scholar's name, but he also talks about polygamy.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=fGmAGT-cyuI
Here is the last lecture by Dr. Bilal Phillips. He talks about Prophet Muhammad's marriage to A'isha (may Allah be pleased with her).
2007-09-01 10:04:42 · answer #8 · answered by asdasdasdasdasdasdasdasdadasdads 2 · 7⤊ 1⤋
That is a silly question. Are you saying we Muslims are not human beings? Do you think we are robots or something? Are you a bigot in thinking Muslims are less human than you are? That what it sounds like to me.
2007-09-01 10:05:11 · answer #9 · answered by Mustafa 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
lol... yes we do kiss n cuddle n stuff... marriage wouldn't have any meaning without kissing n cuddling...
We just don't do it publicly... BUT... I do slid my hand into my hubby's back pocket when we're walking togheter :D n he has his arms around my shoulder...
:D
2007-09-01 12:24:14 · answer #10 · answered by Samantha 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋