some things go to pay for bills. I'm thinking about relocating. Most of the jobs are not on the bus line. I feel like this is my only option. It a lot a people are looking for work & can't get there due to the location. It foolish to fax resume if I know I can't put go to the interview.
I have already done some research (job economic, housing, schools, crime static’s, etc) so I know this is a good this will be a good choice before I make my move.
The problem is my sister's agree to keep my child until I get on my feet. I'm going to help her financial. My mother's told me she got enough responsible she a single parent of 5. Their dad is in jail. Before he went to jail. He wasn’t helping her with the kids financially. He was selling drugs. I don’t if he has change or not. My sister told me in his letter. He says he will & will buy the children a puppy.
He will be getting out in a couple of months. I will be living in a shelter temporary. Should I take her with me or let her stay.
2007-09-01 08:49:58 · 11 answers · asked by tasha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Before you make any decisions- contact your local social services. They have a lot of programs to help single moms out.
As far as with your sister- if your gut is telling you something is still wrong there- then do not put your child there!
It would be better to bring your child with you, even if it is to a shelter temporarily, than to put her in a potentially life threatening situation.
Even if you put the danger warnings aside, the emotional effects that you leaving your child behind can create- for the both of you- may be irreparable.
Please- check out ALL your options before agreeing to anything!
2007-09-01 09:00:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
First I wish you all the best.
I don't know the age of your child, but regardless, separation from parent as well as separation from child is not healthy.
I agree there must be a more services out there for you and if not, for your child.
A family member situation is nice, but your option does not seem healthy. You may wind up with more of an issue than transportation.
It's bound to be the hard way, but take it and stay together for both your sakes. Your child will learn much more watching you struggle and survive than they would being put on hold in a situation unfamiliar, unsafe (criminal activity) and lonely place without you.
May whomever guides you surround you both with love, guidance and strength.
2007-09-09 08:45:08 · answer #2 · answered by Mom2TwoStep2four 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In case you didn't know the public social services has a once in a lifetime assistance program where they will pay for you and your kids to live in a hotel for two weeks and then once you kind an apartment they will pay the down payment and other payments such as if you need an oven or fridge. They also have a program that will help you relocate if the job you have takes over two hours to get to. They will help with the moving fees including the moving truck and down payment.
2007-09-08 15:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by TM25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never leave my child behind unless that was the only choice I had. When your brother-in-law comes home there will have to be alot of ajustments made for that family, and your daughter will be caught in the middle of the turmoil. She will feel abandoned by you, even thou you have good intentions. If you go to live in a shelter, they will know what agencys can help you get a job, where to get child care, and help with transportation. As far as the father going to help, and buy a puppy, it's so easy to talk when you are behind bars, another to get out and go straight, and here again your daughter will be caught up in the turmoil.
2007-09-07 13:54:30 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your child with you. I am very afraid for her in an environment where an ex-con with a drug history comes home and finds a child who is not his in the household. Can't your mother help you? Have you been to social service agencies to ask about child care and temporary housing in the new area? You have to find a safe situation for both yourself and your child. Your sister may mean well but she will be dealing with some new situations herself.
2007-09-09 06:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 20:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by shenk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best place to fine a job is in New York City, I'm from there and it is so busy here, and there's a bus stop on every 3 blocks, you can never get lost in New York.
2007-09-09 02:20:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you know that is hard to say to take her with you she may not want to go. she may want to be with this guy. will he take care of her no hes not changing and i assure you there are very few that sell drugs or whatever will be good. they will be back in jail sooner cause they dnt' stop nothing. you would be smart to take her but does she want to go with 5 kids? she cuod get help then for sure they would help her get job and stuff but shes got to be wiling to leave as her about it.
2007-09-06 15:06:18 · answer #8 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. what do you think your child would prefer..... a shelter with mom.. who loves you dearly... or a house with a former inmate.. who may still be in the drug selling business. drive by possible. ..police raids.. five other kids in the house. i would take my daughter with me...
2007-09-09 05:16:57 · answer #9 · answered by foosieboy1953 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your daughter will be much better off with you than in your sister's tainted house.
2007-09-07 08:48:33 · answer #10 · answered by jcf6865 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋