Okay there's this guy i met on myspace, he asked for my # and i gave it to him, because i thought he was kinda cute. he has called me twice now, and we just chit-chatted over the phone. After about two weeks, sent me a casual "whats up" text and now he still texts me. We just talk about general things, like school, movies, music and stuff. i mean whats the deal. Apparently he has a girlfriend, why does he keep texting me? he's cool and i like him. But i don't get it.
2007-09-01 08:36:45 · 20 answers · asked by divalicous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Before this go far than it is, have a serious talk with him and tell him that you had enough, he is doing it to get even with you, and it's normal for him to act this way but it's enough now, he should not be doing it all the time, tell him that he must stop or else things will start to get bad between you and this could cause problem.
2016-05-18 22:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there! If he really on a serious relationship he would never keep on texting you, or maybe his just looking for a friend and he found it in you, or maybe he enjoyed your company because you and he have the same interest, I mean you two talked about school,movies and etc. that maybe he never talk about with his gf. He never talk to you about "you and him"? Something like if he can court you? Well if he didn't, no reason to worry, maybe he just really want to be a friend. Why is it hard to understand that a boy and a girl just friend? That's not impossible. Just enjoy his company as a friend. And if he mention about having relationship with you in more than a friend then that's the time to talk about his gf.
2007-09-01 08:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he forgot to update the info on his page. Heck, my boyfriend's page says he's single, but I think he only registered because I wanted him to and hasn't taken the time to properly fill the basic info section out. He doesn't log into it much either.
If it really is bothering you, you should just ask this guy about it. Find out for sure if he's interested in you or if he's stringing you along or what. There's no sense wasting your time with him if he has a girlfriend.
2007-09-01 08:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by BethS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just being friendly I guess. The conversations seem innocent enough, but then again, he's a guy and nothing is ever straightforward with them, they always have a hidden agenda so you need to monitor the situation and if you sense he has more than friendship in mind, just end the friendship. Cause if he's in bold enough to let the world know he's in a relationship, then he should be bold enough to remain faithful and do the right things. No one should have to tell him that if he's in a relationship, he needs to act the part.
2007-09-01 08:49:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YA... I SAY STAY AWAY! myspace aka relationship ruin-er! the guy is being shading and soon his girlfriend will find out. it is not ok for a guy to be talking to you acting like he is interested when he has a girlfriend. i would say that is a red flag and to ditch the fool.
2007-09-01 08:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by wildflower 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well hes either really in a relationship and ur just a friend or hes in a relationship and is maybe not being loyal to his girl or he hasnt updated his page guys dont think bout that stuff trust me its very very far from the first thing on there minds
2007-09-01 08:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just wants to be your friend? Maybe he isnt happy with his current relationship if he is in one. And how do you have his myspace page anyways? If he is not in a relationship, maybe he is just to shy to ask you out. Next time he calls just ask him what his deal is yourself.
2007-09-01 08:44:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hes a cheater?? Im not sure rly. Maybe hes having a hard time with his "relationship" or maybe he forgot to take that down.
Best of Luck <3
2007-09-01 08:43:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
cause he has no morals and he is a dog and he is looking for a booty call . erase him and put him out of your mind and off your page . what if his g/f sees that and then finds out about you and comes and wants to hurt you ? too much of that going on these days for you to be involved in something like that . be carefull and stay safe and stay away from this guy he could be a dangerous person you never know .
2007-09-01 08:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just wants to be friends? If you're just basing his relationship status on what it says on Myspace than you should ask him. I'm single but my status says Swinger.
2007-09-01 08:41:21 · answer #10 · answered by Tricia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋