Is this ok?
2007-09-01 07:40:36 · 26 answers · asked by BLACK GUY! ♣ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
VTX- I would not date one of your sluty daughters if you paid me!
2007-09-01 08:34:49 · update #1
This means that you are a healthy man. My g/f is 11 y younger than me.
2007-09-01 08:00:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi
Why would it not be ok? Is it you that is not sure or someone else's opinion? You have to do what you feel is ok-and not be concerned with other's opinions-if the two of you are ok with it then there should be no problem. 23 is a legal adult and you are not dating underage girls-so I see no problem.
I get the feeling that it is others that have a problem with your choice of partners-not you so much.
I am going to go out on a limb & think it might be more accurate to say that you are wondering why you are attracted to girls 10 years younger? Maybe this is a protective aspect of you-do you have younger sisters? You might just feel more comfortable with this age group. Or, it could be an insecurity in you that feels intimidated in some way by women in their 30's-many of whom probably have careers/ex husbands/kids and you do not feel ready to take all of that on. If that is the case then its good that you do not lead others on.
Maybe you are drawn to a more youthful time in your own life and are afraid of "getting older" and younger girls make you feel energized! In all of these cases you are the only one who needs to understand yourself and make the right choices for you and the others involved with you. No one can tell you what to do there. Keep an open mind and be honest with yourself. Only you know what your experiences are in your life and how that influences you to make choices and decisions.
I wish you Well!
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2007-09-01 14:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by BodyLogique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating a younger girl is fine but a girl under 10 is a little sketchy..especially for a 33 year old man...
2007-09-01 14:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on the guy. I have known some guys that are just doing it to appear younger and can't stand the fact that they're no longer in the college crowd and I also have some really great guy friends your age ... the problem is that Im usually the friend they call when they want to go out partying and the friends they have their age think its childish ... If you're basing your decision to date them based off their age, then I would say there's an issue. Otherwise, who cares?
2007-09-01 14:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by madison5247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the maturity of the both of you. Girls do mature quicker than guys. It depends on how you both feel, and how well you get along. Age should not be in issue, mainly above the age of 21. My 23 yr old friend is dating a 41 yr old man, and there happy.
2007-09-01 14:46:30 · answer #5 · answered by Babydoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not like you're attracted to 12 year old girls.
A lot of people marry someone 10 years younger than them and they have solid relationships.
It would be more cumbersome if you were a female looking for a man 10 years younger than you, but it seems pretty reasonable for a guy.
I'm personaly not that attracted to men my age myself.
2007-09-01 15:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by Gata de Barrio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's OK, just don't go below the 18 year old line. I mean, 23 is perfectly alright, you are both adults. If you were 43 and she 23 it would still be OK, but 53 and her 23 then she definitely wants your money dude.
2007-09-01 14:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by chinchilagua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 years younger is not bad aas long as you do not get mixed up minors. Having some youngedr can be a good thing if that is what you like
2007-09-01 14:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by John W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you are a little insecure with people your own age!!! Most 33 year olds have different interests than most 23 year olds.
2007-09-01 14:45:55 · answer #9 · answered by Jamie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls of 23 are young women. If they want to go out with you, that sounds fine.
2007-09-01 14:45:15 · answer #10 · answered by Matt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋