so if they do it wont help that i have bad social and conversational skills. when i do come in contact with people all i do is say "hi", "hello" or how are you" and thats the extent of my conversational skills. any help would be great
2007-09-01 06:41:21 · 5 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so if they do it wont help that i have bad social and conversational skills. when i do come in contact with people all i do is say "hi", "hello" or how are you" and thats the extent of my conversational skills. any help would be great. i am 31 yr old male and they looking to set me up with a female
2007-09-03 09:06:12 · update #1
That the way i am in person it takes me more than a half a hour to open up and if they keep talking than it is easier start with hi and hello do not look directly in there eyes you will freeze up till you get more crammer then you will calm down and you will be able to talk more and everything will go smooth
2007-09-09 05:38:02 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't bother going, your not in the right frame of mind dude. you need some coaching before entering the game. the forward pass missed the intended receiver... if you wanna try and intercept this 1st down attempt you gotta get pumped up, and tackle your insecurities at the knees!
do you make up for these social skills in other fields? you can always attempt a field goal before going all the way for a touchdown... go! go! go!!
2007-09-09 11:57:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot help being yourself.
If that's all you're comfortable in saying when you first meet somebody, then that's okay.
So that you won't be anymore uncomfortable, ask those who want to set you up with a date not to. Tell them that you can get your own women!
If they insist, just be yourself. There is some woman out there who will accept your quietness and shyness just the way that you are.
2007-09-08 18:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr hello.. my husband was similar. all he said was hi how are you and asked about the weather. i found his shyness alluring. so don't think all women want a good line. we want truth. my husband does not rattle on of things that are not true or make promises he would not keep. so just be yourself someone will love you as you are. just keep meeting people your special someone will waltz into your life and do most of the talking.
2007-09-09 13:40:12 · answer #4 · answered by phantom43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok act natural say "hey" "hi" "wats up" watever be urself try not to get week nees and like trip on him then ur screw ules he cathes u
2007-09-01 13:49:21 · answer #5 · answered by Alex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋