Are men able to have Non-Sexual relationships with woman, and just be friends???

Answer 1

Friends shouldn't be lovers . . .

Lovers can't be friends . . .

and husbans and wives are just that, husbans and wives . . .


Now to elaborate . . .




Friends shouldn't be lovers for friendship has it's own ruels

of engagement and to break thoes ruels is saying nothing

more than if i can't respect you as a friend by resorting to

my animalistic instincs, i'm certainly not going to respect

you as a lover, for if that were the case then you wouldn't

have a thing called cheating now would you, i mean how

does one cheat on a friend? friends come and go and yet

we don't go to divorce court over it now do we? . . .


So it follows lovers can't be friends for once the deed is done,

then the sexual ruels of engament are inatiated, point being

when we were friends i didn't mind you associating with a

guy or even several guys cause we were just friends so the

ego would not be threatened, but lovers are not friends by

any stretch of the imagination are they now? after the ruel of

sexual encounter is initated then the friendship now becomes

who was that guy, or who was that girl i saw you with and why

didn't call me when you said you would and of course though

the responce might be a sincere and harmless, " Oh just a

friend, well ok i forgot to mention, i gave him some head but

hey what are friends for right? . . .



Now husbans and wives? ah! there neither friends or lovers,

for if that were case again you wouldn't have a thing called

cheating would you now? i mean try telling your spouse that

you have a friend who you see every now and then when

your down, some one who understands you and even on

occasion will give you what you can't get at home and see

what happens . . .


So in conclusion . . .

Love is the blood and friendship is the water if there's any

thruth to the saying blood is thicker than water then love is

thicker than friendship . . .


for though men may ruel the world it's the women who are in

charge of those men, hence speaking for my self to answer

your question, i believe it's all up to the women . . .

Answer 2

Yep... I Have A Bunch Of Male Friends And I Know Their Girlfriends. But At The Same Time, These Are Guys That I've Grown Up With. My Boyfriend Met A Girl, He Said They Were Only Friends... They Worked Together So They'd Spend Alot Of Time Together And They Actually Ended Up Liking One Another. So Sometimes I Guess.

Answer 3

Yes! And this is not just because he happens to find the female friend sexually unattractive. Male-female friendships can start off with some attraction but that doesn't always have to end in sex and therefore end the friendship. To begin with, there's a difference between how men and women perceive the friendship. Men see a female first who just happens to be a friend; a woman sees a friend first, who just happens to be male. Men who recognize a friendship with a woman he finds physically attractive have a good chance of maintaining a strong and stable friendship. Between a man and a woman, emotional connections CAN and DO exist even without sex.

Answer 4

Of course. I've had female friends all my life, from the time I was a baby right to this day.

While there have been some I became involved with, the majority were just great friends. How I view my female friends isn't much different from how I view my guy friends. They're just someone fun to be around, and someone who you can count on.

edit: and no, they don't have to be ugly or unattractive. It just requires some self-restraint. The acknowledgement that the person is more valuable as a friend than a temporary visitor to the bedroom. I feel sorry for those who can't get beyond that.

Answer 5

This can be possible for may be short period but no man and woman be just true friends for a long time because there always comes sexual attraction between them. It doesn't matter whether a girl is ugly or pretty. When you know each other you will like them somewhere, no matter whatever their look is. But if you are asking about just hello friends... yes, ofcourse there can be non-sexual relationships.

Answer 6

Are you angry because men don't consider highly sexually active women good for marriage (in the traditional sense)? Well, can you blame them? It's basic logic. If she gives away sex easily, they will give sex away easily in the future. People don't change overnight just because they exchanged rings or signed a contract. So if they are expecting a monogamous marriage, that woman, or man if it's a man, is not good marriage material. But someone like me, who doesn't expect monogamy anyway, and would sleep around a lot while encouraging her to sleep around too, would not mind.

Answer 7

Yes! It all depends on the mindset of the men and the way they were brought up. Women till today are viewed by many as objects of sexual-desire, this mindset is changing though,and it is a must that there is a mindset shift.I have many friends who have friends from the opposite sex who are just friends.So id say yes!we men are able to be just friends with women.

Answer 8

Only if the woman is not sexually attracted to you, you can be just friends. But the probability rating is high since all men thinks is sex

Answer 9

I know most guys may seem to just want sex..sex.. and more sex, but there are other guys that respect women. Sure, it may be a little hard to find those kind of guys.

Being a girl, I've experienced a lot towards guys. Not all of them think of that way. But I'm not really sure, it's only my perspective.

Anyway, to see the real intention, one should just not be too attatched. Sometimes guys are users, they just can't wait to get their paws on girls. But as I said, not all of them are like that.

It would be lucky for a girl to find a guy he likes that has a lot of control towards sex. As my bio teacher said before, don't give that guy away if he really has self-control towards sex. Of course, other aspects should be considered.

Answer 10

I have had many lady friends where the relationship is purely platonic. I considered them good friends and the intimacy that we did share, talking about feelings and daily life, was some of the best ever. Were they like guy friends, no. But they were not horizontal bop friends either.