can he make her have it if he can prove that he can pay for it and take care of it? My friend is going through a heartbreaking situation in which he wants to meet and keep future child but this selfish ***** does not want to budge
2007-08-31 22:09:08 · 17 answers · asked by Raquel 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
since it took two people to make it then both should have equal say in it and stop all this maybe she wasnt ready for it **** if your ready to have sex your ready to take care of it step up tp the plate and be a woman and give someone a chance we are humans we are not god we dont have the right to decide who lives and who dies it's time to grow up and stop making excuses for ourselves what doesnt kill you only makes you stronger god would not give you more than you could handle i know plenty of girls who have children and they have managed to work and go to school all while taking care of a baby if they can do it so can you power to all my strong black, latina, white, and asian women!
2007-08-31 22:36:23 · update #1
if he has money he can no doubt take her to court and make her have the baby depending on how far along she is. because fathers have rights to. unless she has an illness that having the baby would be life threating to her.(heart trouble,etc..) on the other hand if you have this baby and he changes his mind and doesn't want it you could let it be adopted. my husband and i would love to have another but i can't have anymore. i would love to adopt if i knew for sure they wouldnt change their mind and want the baby back.
2007-09-01 00:24:39 · answer #1 · answered by Gladys C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The Mack Sennett answer is likely--movies had (and have) a strong influence on popular culture, as when undershirt sales plummeted after Clark Gable didn't wear one in It Happened One Night. I've read that before 1915, prostitutes were the group known for shaving. The chief reasons women shave are aesthetics, smell, and custom. Hairy armpits on an otherwise groomed woman, especially when she's wearing something like a sleeveless ballgown, look unkempt, unsophisticated, and earthy--a more hippy look than generally desired. If they're wet with sweat, even worse. Hair also traps smell, so you 're going to have more BO if you're unshaven. And third, culturally there's a EWWW factor--we're just not used to seeing it. Shaving the legs is done strictly for aesthetic reasons--hair under nylons gets all bunched up and ruins the sleek look of the leg, and long, dark leg hair looks masculine. The aesthetics have a lot to do with achieving an illusion of maximal youthfulness, as cited by some here. Women generally like to look fresh and girlish, and certainly don't want to invite comparisons with an old, hairy guy.
2016-05-18 05:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a lawyer. Have papers drawn up saying that the mother relenquishes all paternal rights when the baby is born and the father will take them. Have both parties sign the papers. The father also needs to go to court and get some sort of order to protect his rights. Some lawyers won't take on the case, but alot will. Even then it may not work. But it is worth a try. Good Luck.
2007-08-31 22:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by ayla_2114 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow.
Why in the hell would your friend want to force a woman to have a baby she doesn't want? Do you think that it is wise for him to force a woman to have a baby she is going to regret?
There was some serious lack of planning here. This woman is not a selfish -insert typical descriptive word here-, she is probably just being REALISTIC. If she does not want to have a baby it's probably for a good reason!
Whether it be because she KNOWS SHE CANNOT BE A GOOD MOM, or whether it is because she knows that they are both not ready.
If your "friend" really wants a baby so bad, he should pick a partner that is at the same stage in life as he is. It's totally foolish to be with a person who wants way different things.
2007-08-31 22:14:17 · answer #4 · answered by equinebeing 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As far as the law goes anywhere in North America, he's S.O.L. (sh*t outta luck). I'm not an anti-feminist, but I find it interesting to note that the woman has the right to choose whether to have the baby, but if she has it, the father has no choice but to support it, regardless of whether he wants the child or not.
2007-08-31 22:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
But he isn't the only person responsible for a new life in the world. Can he 100% guarantee he will ALWAYS be there to help her raise his child? Why does her opinion make her selfish???? Would YOU let your friend tell you that you HAD to keep his baby if you weren't ready for it?
2007-08-31 22:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by Whynot 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nobody cand really give an answer to this question, it's only up to the 2 involved. They have to decide together if they keep the baby or not
2007-08-31 22:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by a b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the end it will be up to the woman. Legally nothing can be done about it, as it is her body.
Though she needs to step up and atleast have the child, sign her rights away and let your friend raise the baby.
2007-09-01 00:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by his wife 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go ahead and have the baby, and let him take responsibility for it. If he does not come through, there is adoption, and there is also open adoption, now there are so many more choices, than there used to be.
2007-08-31 22:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Unaware 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he has the right to make her have the baby. But she too should have no right to keep the baby if the man says no. It takes two.
2007-08-31 22:23:58 · answer #10 · answered by Mr_realist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋