I want to ask this girl out. We're pretty good friends, and when ever she sees me in the hall she smiles at me. i learned from her friend that she may be interested in another guy, but she also told me the guy didn't even know and that theres no real relationship. Thoughts?
2007-08-31 16:23:45 · 30 answers · asked by ZeRo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THANK YOU FOR BEING INTERESTED IN "GOING OUT" RATHER THAN JUST "HOOKING UP"!!!1 Thank God someone still has sense!
I think that you could kind of get an idea of what her answer would be by just talking to her. Like, if the subject comes up, "So is it just that guy or is there anyone else that you would go out with?" Subliminally suggest that you two might make a good couple. Either she'll obviously not be into this or she'll be bashful or she'll be straightforward, whatever that might mean.
2007-08-31 16:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by Drinking from a broken glass.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she likes you, but before you go and ask her out right away, try to get to know her more even you are both pretty good friends. there may just be that one thing that you don't know that you just can not stand. and then try to hang out with her just being the two of you. after that, try getting more info from her friend about if she likes you or what, then when it all feels right, ask her out. and if she puts you in the "i just want to be friends" zone, don't take it personally. For some girls it's just hard to jump into a relationship with a friend... it sometimes feels awkward. I know from experience. but ya.. well good luck with her, i hope everything goes good!
2007-08-31 23:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by that_girl92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friends and hang out a lot, and you know her well. Then it wouldn't hurt to ask her out. You could start with doing more things together. Don't expect her to want to be your girlfriend right away, it takes time. Make sure you don't rush it and ruin a good friendship, but you also don't want to wonder about asking her forever! The worst she can say is no. If that happens, it might be awkward for a while, but you could still be friends.
2007-08-31 23:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how long you've known her and if you're sure you want to ask her out. It can't hurt by asking--the worst thing she could say is no, but that might also end your friendly relationship. It's up to you to decide if you feel ready or not to put that in jeopardy. Do you really feel the need to ask her out? Would you only be asking her out for the sake of it? Do you really like her in that way? Does she mean that to you?
Think about it for a few days(or minutes!) and decide when you're ready. Do what you feel is right, but use others suggestions--they could be helpful.
2007-08-31 23:31:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she did admit that she likes someone else so that could be a reason to remain friends at the moment,I mean if you two were to date, and then this man asked her out are you sure that she wouldn't go out with him to just see what it would have been like?
Wish for the best, prepare for the worst.
2007-08-31 23:28:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, Although that may sound like an answer you don't want to hear,
I've pondered this alot, often too much, and when i finally went through with it, it was a complete dissapointment.
maybe it will work better for you. But, it just left me feeling akward talking to her....
before you do ask... Think to yourself,
will she be a better girlfriend than just a friend?
2007-08-31 23:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it. but you've gotta make sure you do it the right way. in a way that will make her feel special...like putting chocolates on the desk that she sits at in the next period. oh oh and with a note! ya a poem! ya thats it! she would feel SO SO great! i know that would make my day if i was her! you must really like her...and dont worry about this "other guy" thing. im sure she'll be running to you if you charm her and turn her on. good luck!!!!!!!
2007-08-31 23:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by >>Rican[Mamii♥]<< 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg these kinds of questions piss me off, no affence. I mean I had this one guy he liked me in 4th grade. (young but still keep reading) And he asked me out in 6th!!! Dude ask her out, so what she likes another dude but stil if u ask her out she might just say yes! You know what girls hate? (I'm 13) WE hate the fact that guys aren't straight up with us. I know we aren't either but its the guys who make the move. Good luck and seriously ask her out!
2007-08-31 23:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by HEARTLESS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is talking to you about other guys, I would not ask her out. Good friends are not easy to find. Keep the friendship.
2007-08-31 23:30:13 · answer #9 · answered by Orlando J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go for it, ask her out cause what do you have to lose...there is always rejection in life, there is never a way to avoid it, if she says yes then you're set, if she says no, then dont worry about it, dont linger on it, and definately dont make it akward and avoid her because there will still be a possibility in the future
2007-08-31 23:28:00 · answer #10 · answered by ven m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋