I'm sorry to have to ask about this, but I need to.
Late last year, I saw this very cute guy taking pictures at an event I was performing at (a chorus thing). The way he moved, like he knew what he was doing with the camera, captivated me. I stared at him the entire time, and I couldn't look away because he had gorgeous eyes.
Well, my luck was apparently good, because he's in one of my classes this year, and sits in front of me everyday. We talk a bit, and I found out that he really isn't into photography or anything (despite what I thought). I also found out that he's very weird, and even though I myself am quite odd, he's overtly so. And his voice is basically monotone.
It's safe to say that I don't think that I'm attracted anymore, but well... it's blatantly obvious that he likes me now. I'm sure he's going to ask me out soon. But I've already turned down two other guys and I think I'm just getting picky. Should I give it a try, even though I'm not that into him, or not?
2007-08-31 16:20:06 · 5 answers · asked by Hailey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm also worried since he sits in front of me, so if I try to make it work with him but things don't go well, we'll be stuck next to each other for the rest of the school year!
2007-08-31 16:29:47 · update #1
just see if it might work .. you never know
2007-08-31 16:24:45 · answer #1 · answered by CoachAutumn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is infinitely easier to say "no" in the first place than it is to break it off after a few dates and he has all kinds of ideas. Don't do it!! If you think he could grow on you then so be it, but get to know eachother as friends. With friends there aren't the expectations and pressure. It's fine to be picky. It's a good thing.
2007-08-31 23:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by Sher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there's nothing wrong with being overtly wierd lol... that just means he's confident in himself which is always good... if there's no attraction then just say u dont like him like that, but don't think he's just wierd so you shouldn't go out
2007-08-31 23:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by pat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do him and you a great big favor and very nicely turn him down......Blame it on some other reason that you have no control over.
If you don't "nip it" you're going to have a real tough go of it.
2007-09-01 00:04:15 · answer #4 · answered by Carl R 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeah go for it, but dont let him get to attached keep it more casual. but u dont want to crush him.
2007-08-31 23:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋