we been together for 3years and i love him very much back then....he is carinng kind and loyal to me...
3 months ago i came to UK to study...this is the last month i am staying at UK the next month i will be going home..
i feel so lonely and miss him and my family alot.....one day i met this girl who i felt really comfortable with...it is really happy to be with her...she care for me too....
due to the distance problem i find that my love for my boyfriend is not there anymore...i just cant say " i love u" to him anymore after i discovered that i prefer the girl that i met more than him....me and the girl did express our feeling towards each other....I really dont know why i will fall for her...i m so confused....is this a good reason to dump my boyfriend? i m afraid that i might regret after that
2007-08-31 16:11:05 · 9 answers · asked by LiFE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This questions is from a girl for your information....
2007-08-31 16:11:58 · update #1
No not really thats a BAD reason to break up with somebody i mean you dont find to many people in life that cares for you and you guys lasted three years and pasted the break up month because usually 4 sum reason when ppls together that second month there together feelings are gone//
yea i kno how u feel he not there to be with you but
think about it he been there 4 u through thick n thin
the gurl no she just a freshmen he a junior so yea
dont leave him
2007-08-31 16:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by LuckyJrr. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it really sounds like your relationship with your boyfriend is over already. You've already stated taht you don't feel love for him any more. But the other big issue is that you are now attracted to a woman. You need to figure that out first I think. After all, if you are going to realize that you are a lesbian, then a relationship with any guy becomes rather pointless.
Also, you need to decide if the long distance thing is even worth the effort. If you are not both completely in love with each other it's not going to work, one of you will cheat, or both.
2007-08-31 23:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i agree with the other people above.. it might be because you miss your bf a lot so your mind is playing tricks on you. you miss the attention & love so you would go to that girl for comfort. that might be the case. you have to think about your feelings carefully & know what you want. as you said you, don't wanna regret anything. if you really like the girl make sure those feelings are TRUE & genuine, not just because your bf is not there & you wanna be loved while he's not around. so follow your heart & good luck with things (=
2007-08-31 23:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your reaction to the girl may come strictly from being away from your home, and loved ones. I don't think that it's a good reason to dump your BF. You may regret that decision in the long run. Think long and hard before you do something based on loneliness.
2007-08-31 23:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a similar situation. My husband is away & I feel lonely. He won't be back for at least a year. I don't believe in cheating on him, but I have such a strong desire to be touched. I've always been interested in what it would be like to be with a girl, so I've decided to try & look for a girl. This way, I don't feel like it's cheating on him & if he ever found out, I don't think he'd feel like it was cheating either.
2007-08-31 23:21:13 · answer #5 · answered by Vicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a case of homesickness, lonliness, curiosity, etc. all mixed up together. Don't be too quick to dump him. He deserves that much at least. Chances are, once you're back home and see him, you're feelings for him will come flooding back.
2007-08-31 23:23:07 · answer #6 · answered by SinSister 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what makes u happy.....u will miss ur bf no matter what...but its not fair to him if u like this girl and r messing around with her. I say u shoul break up w/ him be4 things get worse.
2007-08-31 23:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't dump him. Have them both. Anyway one will not be jealous of the other.
2007-08-31 23:25:40 · answer #8 · answered by art 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.
honestly, i hate long distance realiotonships.
just say its hard not seeing you and you wanna see other people.
2007-08-31 23:17:33 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica Anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋