I came home today after work, to find 2 of gold fishes dead!! and the other 2 acting really funny!! I called my husband to tell him the fishes died and the others are acting weird...but as soon as I started saying that the fishes were died, I felt this uncontrolable cry...I don't know how to describe it in words if you saw me you would have thought a family memember had died! I was balling, sobbing, couldn't breath......I've had fishes before and they have died and it was nothing....What the hell could that have been???any idea?? anything like this happen to anyone before????
2007-08-31 15:11:03 · 6 answers · asked by muwah22 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Often when we experience a death, it is reliving other deaths too. I'd cry if my fish died, they are really cute the way they come up to the top of the pond when I walk out there. To me, our pets are members of the family. I cry when family members pass away because I know I'll miss them.
2007-08-31 15:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For sure its not about the dead fish you cry ed . How strange it sound but it can be a wound that went open again with the word "death"
2007-08-31 15:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by justonpc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Of cause, everybody will feel sad if something that they loved dearly lost or perished. I have that same feeling too, but I overcome it by having a thought in my mind that the dead has gone to meet god in heaven. A far more better place.
Thank you
Leon.
2007-08-31 15:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by leon adrianto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just might be built up emotions, happens a lot. you might have been suppressing emotions, anger, sadness, etc and maybe didnt realize you were doing it, then when you saw the dead fish, it just all came out. happens to people all the time. dont worry about it. but you might want to think about (if you want to get to the bottom of the issue) what you were supressing--stress, sadness, anger, etc. hope this helps!!
2007-08-31 15:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by slittle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its happened to me before, too, and i felt the same way. i was like whats wrong with me? if it was someone else, i would think they were crazy. if it only happened once, dont worry about it. you were probably just tired, thats what it is with me.
2007-08-31 15:32:48 · answer #5 · answered by lana s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k you are either pmsing or you are prego, or u could just be depressed. i get like that when i have pms.
2007-08-31 15:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by thesunnshynne 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋