Why do some white women send mixed messages concerning illegal immigration?

Question

I travel a lot and live mostly around hispanics. I now live and work around illegals. In El Paso, being illegal is a way of life for many. When I go throughout this country, I noticed a lot of illegals working in Southern States. I also noticed that white females marry them quite often. Even if it does not result in marriage, there is a very high percentage of relationships with illegal males and white females. I am somewhat confused because quite a number of white females are opposedto illegal immigration. If you are benefiting from it, why do you oppose? I am not hispanic or white, so it really does not matter to me. However, why complain about illegals and marry them at an alarming rate? Anyone who is down South or in the Midwest knows and sees what I am talking about. Isn't it hypocritical to want them as lovers but want others to leave the country? I know this does not represent every white woman, but it is an issue worth noting.

Answer 1

Some honestly fall in love with a person. If you love them you deal with everything that comes with that person.Some may not know the man is an illegal immigrant, and because they care they of course will then, help that person stay in the country.
Some women just want to have a "no strings" attached one night stand.Some illiegal immigrants will target,white women. Ones who are lonely,maybe they don't have alot of friends.So ,they have access to cars,credit,jobs whatever.But that's just another form of someone "using someone:".And that happens in every race all over the world.From prison inmates being released and wanting to find a woman to get the basics they need in life like housing,phone access,shower etc. until they get on their feet.Then it's good-bye lady! It's up to the woman to get to know someone!

Answer 2

EXACTLY- They need to be sent on their way - build an electric fence and then no one will cross it . There are all of these arguments - You pimp these people - No they do it to themselves - they made a choice to come here - they have some intelligence they aren't stupid. The kids get left here - send the kids back too. They were here 1st. Yea 500 yrs ago . All of the hispanic countries have laws that govern immigration. They are all poor! No they are not - they work ,they make less per hour - but EVERYTHING there is cheaper, it balances out. They watch spongebob squarepants just like you do.There are rich people there and poor people there just like here.

Answer 3

What's good for one white woman may not be good for the next. What kind of question is this. I really don't understand your reasoning. Just because quite a few white women in your neck of the woods falls for illegal alien men, doesn't mean all white women feel the same way. It would only be hypocritical if the same women who are dating & marrying these illegals are opposing them.

Answer 4

I'm from the south and I have no idea what you are talking about. There's a definite feeling of segregation here between everyone who is legal -- inclusive of hispanic citizens -- and illegals. Illegals frequent particular groceries, neighborhoods and areas. Everyone else leaves those areas alone.

They pay everything in cash...from car repairs to utilities. They don't have phones, they carry phone cards or their "chirpers" from their work sites. They pop out of the woods and onto busy thoroughfares. (I think some live in the wooded areas.) They drop baby diapers and leave full gallon jugs of urine on the side of the highways. It's given a whole new meaning of "punishment" for traffic offenders who are given road cleanup on the weekends.

I can see the lure of a Latin man....one with enough self respect to go about things the right way. I've seen some very sexy Cuban, Argentinian and Guatemalan men. There's a huge difference between these law abiding men and the class of men you find that are illegals.

It's definitely a matter of 2 very different classes here. There surely ARE some native born Americans who I would place in the same social extreme, I guess. I just don't want to know any of them.

Answer 5

Don't you think it is possible that the ones taking them as lovers are not the same ones who are down on illegal immigration?

Or do you think white women share a single opinion?

Answer 6

Now I could be wrong about this... but I am quite positive that the white women who are on Y!A who are anti-illegal immigration are NOT the same white women who are marrying illegal immigrants. Now... I am not a white women so I can't speak as an authority on this matter... But that's just simply my own personal "reasoning."

Answer 7

Wow you are really generalizing and presuming to speak for millions of people who happen to be white and female.

Just like one black woman deciding to marry say an Asian or someone else doesn't matter and doesn't set a standard by which all should be judged.... same deal with your question.

Answer 8

If a white woman was against illegal immigration, she would definitely not be in a relationship with an illegal.

Answer 9

Uh. No. No desire to date a Latin man.

Not threatened by Latin women either.

I'm not really bothered by the illegals either. Most of them work harder than US Citizens. There wouldn't be as big a problem with immigration if it didn't take so long for them to get their citizenship.

Redheaded Irish women Rock!

Answer 10

I'm in NC....I've never heard a white woman with a Mexican oppose illegal immigration, and I've never seen a white woman who opposes illegal immigration with one. They're not all the same woman, nor do they all act with one mind.

I've seen a lot of white people who are vegetarian, and I've seen a lot of white people eat steak raw....is this a "mixed message", too?