How can you tell this woman that you are sorry and that you love her no matter what ... there is this huge story between me and this woman I'm missing her I kind of cryed in bed for her I feel alone I haven't seen her for along time but i do still got feelings for her alot of feelings I care about her how can I tell her i'm sorry & I love her ? just in her eyes i was the bad guy but now I want to be like her good guy cause now I Understand more what you should do when you love someone
2007-08-31 08:45:18 · 32 answers · asked by diet_television_pop 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please GO TELL HER JUST THAT ................ YOU LOVE HER AND YOUR SORRY AND MAKE SURE WHAT EVER YOU DID TO CAUSE ALL THIS ......NEVER.....HAPPENES AGAIN.....TELL HER YOUR A CHANGED MAN BUT ONLY IF YOU TRULY ARE ... TELL HER TO GIVE YOU ANOTHER CHANGE TO SHOW HER YOU ARE NOW THE "GOOD " GUY ...... good luck....go now....don't wiste anymore time.
2007-08-31 08:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by Marie 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are breaking my heart. I don't know what is going on with the woman or if she has moved on. I think if you say you are sorry and have some understanding how what you did affected/hurt her and have solid plans for new behavior and she loved you before, maybe she will hear you. Even if you do not get her back, the sorry will mean something to her. I would not talk about how miserable you are because she will not see you as being sorry at all. She will see you as telling her what she wants to hear so you can have her back just to treat her badly again. Leave that part out.
Good luck to you. We are all human. It is painful, but we learn by making mistakes. Even if you don't get her back, at least you are a better man.
2007-08-31 08:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the situation. If she did something that was just a little bad and you went off on her, you have a lot of sorrys to say. If she did something extremely bad, and you did the the first rational thing that came to your mind without any explaining, you still have a lot of sorrys. You just have to take it slow, start out with dinner or lunch or something, talk about old times, etc. Then when your relationship is brought up, tell her how sorry you are and how you feel about her. DON'T FORGET THE FLOWERS.
2007-08-31 09:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by tabi_jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playing you and you need not to give in. Stay strong, you will find better in the future. You really need to just work on you and take this as a learning experience and build yourself for the future.
Join a gym and work out and stay positive, try surrounding yourself with positive people. Go out and have fun and try not to care. I know it is hard because I too was in the same situation. You can do and get through this.
I found a truly great woman and I am finally happy.
P.s. This womans name wouldn't happen to be Bonnie would it?
Good Luck
2007-08-31 08:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by Love_is_there 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you can afford it get some posters printed with a pitchure of her on it and underneath put a heart an soul fealt romantic verse of how you feel an how sorry an also explain how much you love an that you'll change to a goody guy instead a baddie guy if she'd take you back when youve done this sign the posters an then put them in places where she hangs out or go's to you could also put it in your local paper have a nice night an goodluck
2007-08-31 09:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself a few questions. Why are you sorry? Why now are you able to see and feel the love you had for this lady? Did you mistreat this lady? Was this love wasted, from your own lack of being able to open up, be honest, and trusting, with little respect to this lady you love? Is this a love you abused and tossed away?
The first thing you need to do is to take on the responsibility of correcting yourself. Replace all of the you’s with an I, in reference to your question. Open up all of the doors in your heart and answer all the questions, I am asking you to ask yourself! Do not leave a thing out or you will never learn how to be honest with yourself. No one will be able to show you the respect and honesty you are trying to gain. The one thing in life we all desire at one point or another is to be respected. This lesson is one sometimes we learn the hard way. No matter if the respect is one we learn from home with your mom and dad, or brothers and sisters, or even at school, in order to get respect you must first give it to earn it. When you love someone in life with your heart and soul you will walk to the end of earth for them or with them! Love is very hard to find. Love is a one time opportunity to find and share with another person. When you do find love you must open up your heart and soul. Give your full devotion with honesty and respect to this person you love.
When you have love in your life with someone to share in all of the joy, worries, fear, that come along with life there is nothing in life that can or will pull you apart from the love you have. Love is the one thing in life that you will have true faith, trust, honesty, dignity, respect in every way possible. The love you share with another person in life and your heart is very different from the love you will have for a child or a parent. You will notice you will be unable to stop thinking about this person. When you have this love with another person you will not have a smile on your face unless you are thinking about this person or a memory you have in your mind will bring a smile to your face. You will do anything for this person you love, you will never walk in front of them or behind then you will always walk hand in hand. Once you find this love you will never be able to hide it from anyone for anything!! The love you have will show in your eyes, in your face, it will have control on everything you do! You will find that you will be able to conquer anything in life with this love in your heart and soul:)
Good luck to you!
Rags37:):)
2007-08-31 10:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, you only live once. What have you got to lose? If you dont you will just keep wondering all the time and have regrets. Go for it, if you care about her that much then you will.
2007-08-31 10:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest to her, if you can talk to her, explain whatever you need to explain to her. When somebody ask for forgiveness if it is necessary or to that other one to listen, sometimes things can change, but if not, be in peace with you, at least you tried.
when you let the other person know how you feel is more probable to fix things out, hope the best for both.
good luck.
2007-08-31 08:56:33 · answer #8 · answered by Dragonheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You call her up and tell her you screwed up and you are sorry. Tell her you love her and want her back and all that. However, you need to realize that if she tells you to take a flying leap, that's exactly what you need to do. If she tells you she is done with you and you continue you to go after her, that's an awful lot like stalking and definitely pathetic.
Good luck.
2007-08-31 08:49:43 · answer #9 · answered by Sturm und Drang 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have got to tell her.
Thing is you have not told us what you have done.
There are some things a woman can not forgive no matter how hard she tries.
2007-08-31 09:27:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. she probably isnot going to get over it. Take it from me I'm that girl and I know! It's so annoying when a guy does something and tries to apoligize over and over. If she really was going to accept your apoligy she would have the first time you said it.
2007-08-31 08:49:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋