2007-08-31 08:40:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I would say planning a semi-formal wedding at a favorite place of yours, invite family, have a small reception, that would be awesome!!
2007-08-31 08:44:26 · answer #1 · answered by bonstermonster20 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lots of good ideas here already.
I would only suggest that they should talk it over with each other and determine what each does and doesn't want to include. Their desires and wishes should come absolutely first. Then ask the children and friends what they would suggest.
Were I doing this I would choose a very simple renewal of vows ceremony in a church or other place both like. I would have a reception and possibly a few other parties before and after. Lots of pictures on display and take more throughout.
This should be a fun time for all, especially for kids.
2007-08-31 20:52:29 · answer #2 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The type of wedding they had has nothing to do with a vow renewal. Renewing vows is basically a simple ceremony or blessing done in a church, or another location. Then, usually, the couple has family and friends over to their home, or somewhere else, for dinner and visiting. It's simply an anniversary party. It's not time for 'another' wedding, or a 'do-over' wedding.
2007-08-31 10:31:10 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should do everything that you could not do the first time!
Make this day meaningful and memorable!
A three-tiered wedding cake
A beautiful gown and a tuxedo
A Maid of Honor and a Best Man
A Flower Girl dropping petals
Carry a bridal bouquet of your favorite flowers
Create a menu of all of your favorite foods
Buy several bottles of good champagne for you and your friends and then toast to the past . . the present . . and the future
Hire a DJ or a small band and dance the night away
Create invitations that tell your guests that this is a very big day in your lives and to get "all dressed up"
Go on a honeymoon
Sip a tropical drink on the beach and watch the world go by
Answered by: A Certified wedding specialist / A Professional bridal consultant / A Wedding ceremony officiant
2007-08-31 09:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by Avis B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
May I presume they did not have a honey moon as well?
If not - renew your vows at the place you would both enjoy going to have your honey moon.
If that's not an option do a small private ceremony with your children present.
Having the whole ordeal of setting up and planning a big wedding is a pain. Keep it simple and personal. Maybe get married at the spot where you first met or a park or place you two would go to.
If everyone get's bent out of shape becasue they were not invited send a major group email or cards and let them know that although you love them - nobody is invited - children only.
I did this and it worked out great.
We went to our favorite place to dine and included our children after the ceremony.
There were no pressures - no hassles and we set out to do what we intended.
I bought his suit and my dress at a vintage store.
The ceremony
clothes
Pastor
flowers
dinner
_____________
$ 500.00 Total
The rest went on a super fun honeymoon in Bora Bora
2007-08-31 08:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by Erik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom and dad never had a real wedding. They did the whole city hall thing.
They have 4 daughters.
They renewed their vows in a chapel. They did the whole nine yards. We were all in the wedding.
Maybe they should have a big wedding bash with all the whole family..
2007-08-31 08:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by candy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be as formal or as casual as you want. There really aren't rules. It can be an elaborate wedding with the white dress and a big reception, or close friends and family in a more intimate setting. Whatever you want and feel comfortable with. Best wishes!
2007-09-01 10:09:56 · answer #7 · answered by LoveWithNoBoundaries 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Church is always a good idea, or you could reserve a wedding chapel - or just at someones home. Do whatever the older couple will be comfortable with. (with a wedding shower to follow - what fun)
2007-08-31 08:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about a formal wedding?
The guests, the gifts, the reception, THE HONEYMOON, everything - don't make it cost too much and subtract the stress of course - loads of fun
2007-08-31 08:44:40 · answer #9 · answered by captain_koyk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Backyard..seriously my aunt and uncle never got a formal wedding cause it was against their parents will....so they had a back yard wedding a few years ago and had family and friends and they were so happy it was beautiful
2007-08-31 08:43:08 · answer #10 · answered by pokeyark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋