Would you be upset if your significant other cheated on you?

Question

Men and women, would you be upset? Would you want to end the relationship? Would you be surprised?

Answer 1

I'd be exceptionally upset. Not being a kid any longer I would hope that we would have a discussion prior to any infidelity and have the reasons why she felt the need to be unfaithful. It would certainly end what we have together and is one thing that neither of us could or would forgive the other for.

Answer 2

I had an ex cheat on me, I took him back, and he cheated again(I didn't find out until after we broke up, although I did find a love letter in the trash and he denied it). A week after we broke up he tried to marry his ex-g/f and after that fell through he was having sex with another girl that he was talking to while we were together.

After that I will never give a guy another chance. If you cheat, you're gone. It's something that a lot of people have to go through otherwise they don't learn.

If my current b/f cheated on me I would be angry and a bit upset. Our relationship would be over. If he cheated on me with an asian girl I wouldn't be surprised(if it was any other race I would be surprised). He's mostly dated asian girls and prefers them(I'm not really asian). I would be very disappointed.

My feelings are that cheating is not right. If you want to be with someone else then break up the person you're with.

Answer 3

Yeah, I'd be upset. Yeah, I'd end the relationship. And it would depend on my significant other whether I was surprised about it. Some people are better at hiding things than others.

Answer 4

Yes, I would be upset especially if I was with the person for a long time. And most likely I would end the relationship due to the trust factor being gone.

Answer 5

Yeah, I'd be hurt and furious. Cheating on someone shows you see them as insignificant...if I didn't care if my partner fooled around with others, we'd either only be casually dating, or be in an open or swinging relationship.

Would I end the relationship? Quite likely
Would I be surprised? Very little surprises me, but I'd be very disappointed.

Answer 6

I would be very upset if my husband ever cheated on me. We have only been married a little over 4 years. My husband had told me that I had better never cheat on him.He would no way give me another chance. I had told my husband that if he ever cheated on me then the other woman had better be worth it. I would throw him out and then the other woman can have him. No second chances for us. It's not always what a person wants to do but sometimes it's what you have to do.

Answer 7

i would be very upset and yes i would end the relationship. No doubt it will hurt and if i love him would want to stay with him but i cant let him walk over me like that cause chances are if i get back with him he might do it again and plus i wont have no trust with him and if there is no trust then there is no relationship nothing but problems and drama. so even though it would be hard i would have to stand up for myself and leave.

Answer 8

I wouldnt be upset but I would be surprised because both of us make significant efforts to imrove our relationship.

As soon as she cheats she would stop existing for me. How can you be upset at someone who does not exist?

Answer 9

it would be one hell of a suprise, we're pretty much always together when we're not working, and he's very devoted to our family. hell yes i'd be upset, actually that'd be a severe understatement, and i'd kick his @ss to the curb for it too.

Answer 10

i would be soooo hurt...i'd prolly give him another chance...and i would be totally surprised that he cheated on me...cause he works with all guys...when his not at work his at home with me...and if we do things we do things together...he never gets on the computer...so yeah it would surprise me...cause i would be like how did you meet her!!!