Like what features or intellectual, physical features or both. I know some of you would say, a guy whos smart funny and looks dont matter but this seems to be the exact opisite of what girls here see in guys?
2007-08-31 07:24:08 · 42 answers · asked by V3c Knower 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry if I offended some of you when I called you "chicks", I really did'nt know you did'nt like that. Some on the females I know don't mind thats why, I just used chicks to make the question more understanding!
2007-08-31 07:33:26 · update #1
ok so physically:
tall, broad shoulders, nice face, hair that you can tell he doesn't spend years on
intellectually:
has to be at least as smart as me, I personally like a guy a little smarter and in the same areas like I like a guy who's just as good at math and such as I am
and right now I'm not looking to get married or anything because I'm too young for that, but if that's the age range you're in they're looking for a car, that you have a good job, and a good car
2007-08-31 07:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by Chelsea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its so hard 2 figure out what a girl use 2 consider a guy being cute becos of individual difference in making choice, some girls go 4 the physical look, some the intellectual, some how rich the guy is and so on but a good and resonable girl should go 4 who the guy really really is and not what man made features his got.
2007-08-31 07:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by mights 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol. I like this question. For me, personally, if he's a LITTLE shy. I don't like guys that think they're all that, cocky, over confident, and think they can get the girl. It's cute when he doesn't really know what he's doing, yet he's charming you and complimenting you at the same time. Also if he's humerous and can laugh easily (not stupid dirty jokes or anything like that). Yeah, he's gotta be good looking. But that's an added bonus, because who would expect a good looking guy to NOT be cocky and stupid?
If the guy is somewhat artistic (eg. he writes, paints, does photography, plays the guitar, etc), that's a definate turn on. It can mean he's thoughtful, sensitive, and understanding to a girl's feelings.
2007-08-31 07:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want an answer from a 'mature' woman, here goes.
I have found that looks really do not matter. A mature woman knows what is important in a relationship and friendship should be the first thing. If they see a man who is clingy, they will step aside. The personality is important, as well. No one wants to date or be in a relationship with someone who is a total asshole. And, it is true, some intelligence does matters as well as humor.
2007-08-31 07:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by Diana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect, Not Demanding, Humorous, Open Car Doors for Her, Is Very Considerate of Her Feelings, Doesn't Kiss and Tell, Holds her Hand in Public, Compliments Her Once In A While. Show her your someone she can trust and make sure your trustworthy. Be there for her when she needs someone to talk to and make sure she knows that. Do something creative, nice and romantic once in a while. She'll love that! Good Luck!
2007-08-31 08:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, lets go for he obvious, the physical part.. in my opinion, girls like guys with a great hair cut, good physique (toned if possible) nice smile with nice teeth, pretty hypnotizing eyes.. like brad pitt, andy garcia, johnny depp, orlando bloom, ryan gosling, Brandon routh.. smells great( wearing perfumes or colognes), wears his clothes neatly and nicely.
Now for the inner beauty, sensitive( who is not afraid to talk about his feelings and goals- open and mature) thoughtful ( a mere phone call during lunch time at work, or glimpse at the corridor with a big smile implying "i miss you" even if you just saw each other 10 mins ago) intelligent and goal oriented but doesn't forget anniversaries. Roses under the rain stuffs..a true gentle man ...There are really a lot of things that ladies find cute.. sweet, thoughtfulness, loyalty, bravery, kindness, generosity, family oriented, faithfulness.. these are all cute in guy/ man.. cause some men / guys would refrain themselves to be showy bec. they say women would start to have expectations, and they are not ready for that.. but without expectations there wont be anything to look forward to. Sincerity at it's best, with a nice smile and sense of humor , and who is not afraid to show one's affection.
2007-08-31 07:51:44 · answer #6 · answered by Pickles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks: Taller than me i am 5'2, baby face meaning no acne, beautiful teeth meaning straight teeth, no grills, good oral hygeine. Short spiky to medium styled hair any color. Medium built no working out is necessary but muscules are good very good, especially a 6 pack. mmmmm. Ok good personality, outgoing, friendly, smart, someone who can make me laugh. Socialable. Good body hygeine. someone who grooms themselves regularly, as in hair cuts, facial hair. Baths everyday. Cologne and more cologne! Not to much of an athletic person but someone who likes to go anywhere the woman desires, beach, park, mall, lake, etc. Job matters depending on your living and your age. But preferably college or not as long as you can take care of your self and still have some money to take her out. Women love to talk so he has to be able to listen. Full attention at all times. Don't look at any other woman look only at her. Stare into her eyes. Look into her eyes when you talk to her. Don't chew with your mouth open at dinner and dress appropriately because women will look at you so hard you might trip. When you see her hug her close and tight. Kiss her on her cheek. Tell her how beautiful she is and hold her hand. Open doors for her and let her walk in front of you. Offer your help with anything when she seems like she needs it. Always ask how her day was. Send her an email in the morning wishing her a good day. Remember dates!!! When sitting next to her play with her hair. Surprises all the time they never get old. And look in the same direction in life that she does. I'm sure theres more but if you have anymore questions just let me know. Good luck!
2007-08-31 07:36:06 · answer #7 · answered by Stina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be one of those girls who said looks don't matter, but then later realized... no, they do haha. All girls are different. For me anyway, I love a guy with dark hair (brown or black). He needs to be tall, hold himself high... confidence I mean. He also has to be funny... I need a guy who can make me laugh. And he should be nice, though not TOO nice. Notice how they say nice guys finish last, there is a reason for that. OVERLY nice guys are considered weak.. most women prefer a guy who can at least stand up for himself. Women like to feel protected when with their man.
2007-08-31 07:35:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the look doesnt COMPLETLEY matter to some girls but the look has a part of the relationship. Like for me I'm looking for someone smart, funny and romantic. I think it depend on the girl. If the girl likes that edgy rock look then she wants a bf like that.
2007-08-31 07:28:08 · answer #9 · answered by I rockk! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chicks usually look for a man that's masculine.. contrary to common belief.. they usually don't like someone who cries a lot, shows a lot of emotions, and like to talk cute...
Check out this article "10 Common Misconceptions on What Women Want": http://www.tokyodiva.com/10-common-misconceptions.php
2007-09-02 04:36:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋