ok...i was talking to my ex last night cuz we r still like best friends and we talk all the time still...anyways..i told him that there was a hot guy in my advanced classes and that the assistant coach whos still in college is hot too and he goes ok u can stop using the term hot guys. and i go y? and he didnt say anything and i go seriously y..and he goes...cuz im jealous ok? y is he jealous of the guys that i think r hot??? could he still have feelings for me and gets jealous bcuz i think they r hot and i dont tell him that hes hot too or what?
2007-08-31 06:21:07 · 16 answers · asked by sexi_blonde_chick2008 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pull up a chair and I'll tell you all about it. (Then you can go back and inform the rest of your gender). The problem with attempting to be friends with someone you once had romantic feelings for is that you're going to hear them talk about "hot guys" and things of that sort. Generally she's going to go on and on about it, and if she mentions it fifteen times the male brain will hear it forty-five times echoing around in his brain like the chanting of a kid running amok. Guys don't wind up as friends to girls on purpose. It's either the result of a relationship that's gone sour and he had to make a quick decision that it was better to have her in a "friend" capacity than not have her at all; a guy who's trying to meet a girl by attempting to "get in where he fit in", made a wrong turn somewhere and got lost in the "friend zone"; a guy who's not attracted to you at all (which doesn't apply to him, since he's your ex), or a guy who is just not into women, period. (Only that last guy sets out to be a pal on purpose.) The thing is, he pretty much TOLD you the deal and you still didn't get it. What other language could he have used that you would have heard? (He said, "I'm jealous, okay?") From a male perspective, that seems pretty self-explanatory. Does he still have feelings for you? Probably....based on the fact that he was even willing to be your friend in the first place (girls we don't care about after a breakup we'd rather never see again). Does this help you some?
2007-08-31 06:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're talking to your ex, or any guy, it's kind of annoying to hear a girl how "hot" other guys are for a man.
Are you trying to make him jealous?
There's a small chance he's a bit jealous, but not necessarily. If he remain your friend, be fair and think how you would feel if his conversation is just about hot girls. It's like you broke up with him because can't keep your eyes of all the hot guys out here. Be kind.
2007-08-31 13:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by Lulu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from experince i would say he would rather you call him a hot guy than any one else hes not jelios of the guys you spek of buy of you placin thi abouve him in your life even if itss only a small portion of it if he is any thing like me i still have fealing for every girl i ever been with even the one i broke up witheven when he finds some one else he will never want to here about you liking some one else but he will have to learn that your not a couple and you have to continue with your life and him the same i hope this helps you i posted a site on here give him this link if you wahnt him to start healing him self meatin new people has always helped me out they even somtimes have the same problems but you can get on and aske a million people any thing also
2007-08-31 13:34:18 · answer #3 · answered by poeticman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my best friend says other guys are hot, I get a little...well not jealous, just like...'what about me?'.
Guys, us, are afraid of losing girls to hot guys. Girls always go for the hot guy, rather than the nice guy....We don't want to lose you guys. We worked hard to earn your trust and honesty and all that, and sometimes we think a hot guy threatens that and can gain that in one minute, whereas we spent years...
2007-08-31 13:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, he still has feelings for you. Why do u even think yall are like bestfriends? Thats his way of still holding on to you without being with you, but telling him about other guys just makes him feel jealous because there are still some feelings there.
2007-08-31 13:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is so jealous!You say?He totally is still hung up on you and it upsets him for the fact that you have moved on unlike him and have even started checking out other boys specially the hot ones.
2007-08-31 13:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by ♥©ute$tr@nger♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is jealous cause you think other guys are hot. Also he still likes you and wishes you would say he was hot.
2007-08-31 13:26:17 · answer #7 · answered by sparkles_0604 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is bc you had a relationship with him and yes he may not like like you in that way anymore but it still will bother him about you talking about other guys saying they are hot and all. He would rather not picture you with other guys it is nauture for him to feel this way. Or he may still have feelings for you but i am banking on the first answer i gave.
2007-08-31 13:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was joking around. It doesn't sound like he really wants to be with you. Did you break up with him or he with you? But that doesnt really matter. he was probably just joking. get a boyfriend and make him jealous for real. hahaha jk
2007-08-31 13:25:02 · answer #9 · answered by <3BeautyQueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No man wants to hear you say that another man is hot, especially if you dated before.
2007-08-31 13:27:21 · answer #10 · answered by Line Straddler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋